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It is not often easy to live with ‘no direction’. The nuclear hexagram here hints at just how difficult it can be: it’s 23, Stripping Away, a hexagram of loss and often-excruciating ‘clearing out’. It, too, says that there is ‘no harvest in having a direction to go.’ The core need here is to clear the ground of preconceived ideas about where you’re headed, or even who you are, so that the new growth can emerge naturally and find its own shape. Consequently, this hexagram often comes as a reminder that you stand at the very beginning and are trying to predetermine too much, too soon.
H42 is Wind/Wood over Thunder.42.4>25
this isn't very clear but I do tend to get that "moving the capital city" line in issues related to sense-of-self and locus of control/power. codependency, etc.
one interpretation: due to openly communicating my values and moving my center of power, I face loss & challenge externally, but there is no blame...innocence? 25
42 <> 25I asked "what is it with/about me that leads to all these difficulties!!!!!!!!"
42.4>25
7 indicates that the circumstances around this guy is that he carries with him a legacy of grief and sorrow. He perhaps views your relationship as being a way of gaining support to help with his confusion, but is struggling to organise the chaos he experiences on the inside."what do i need to know, if anything, about this guy"
3.1.2.5>7
Kestrel, isn't 3.2 this?don't like that line 2
"Difficulties bring things to a dead end.
Carriage and horses are separated."
'Now sprouting, now hesitating.
Now driving a full horse team.
Not outlaws at all, marital allies.
The child-woman's constancy - not bearing children.
Ten years go by, then bears children.'
Editing again:Kestrel, isn't 3.2 this?
'Now sprouting, now hesitating.
Now driving a full horse team.
Not outlaws at all, marital allies.
The child-woman's constancy - not bearing children.
Ten years go by, then bears children.'
A lot more encouraging, but I agree the reading's nicely in favor of taking your time, getting to know each other, everything you said.
3.2 "
Difficulties bring things to a dead end.
Carriage and horses are separated.
It is not enmity, but a love marriage.
The young woman persists, and does not betroth.
In ten years, then she betroths."
yes, to be honest I did not want to ask Yi at all about it as it's going well and there's no anxiety about simply seeing what happens.Well, you asked about him, not the relationship per se or how you should proceed. It's a good description to go on with, though, I think.
If I had read this last night I would have been angry!42 <> 25
'Augmenting' through 'Disentangling'
The difficulties can be seen as ways in which you are succumbing to, in some way, events in the outside world that challenge you. By coping and learning from them, having to adapt to things on the move, you are freeing yourself and nurturing at the same time (25). 42 carries a sense of development or personal advancement and indicates the shift in your perspectives that come from facing the difficulties allows you alter the stance you take for the future. Try considering each difficulty as a blessing.
Interesting.7 indicates that the circumstances around this guy is that he carries with him a legacy of grief and sorrow. He perhaps views your relationship as being a way of gaining support to help with his confusion, but is struggling to organise the chaos he experiences on the inside.
He is struggling to bring forth the new him, and is fearful of leaving the safety his own comfort zone. You may be able to relate to this and how important support can be (3.1) in these early days. Als, if you can, recall how difficult it can be to reverse negative emotional traits that have taken hold. Sometimes apparent / superficial hostility is the best that can be offered to any relationship (3.2). His behaviour may change in small ways given time (3.5).
... of course, there may be other interpretations that make more sense to you.
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Mm. The issues I asked about have all come up when perceiving that I am in "someone else's domain" and hesitate to take leadership, protective action, etc. for example my car window being broken in this new neighborhood, or being rebuffed by a new aquaintance, or removed from a band.Wind generates Heaven through the moving line at the 4th position. This combination asks you to take charge (Heaven) in communicating your emotions, your state of mind (Wind) to the outside world.
The moving yin line at the 4th position calls for taking charge, here influence on circumstances can be exercised provided leadership is taken.
The nuclear hexagram of H42 is H23 > This is indirectly about letting go of control; the process of Stripping Away in H23 is a natural one. Trying to control this process has disastrous consequences.
To grow, to increase, it is necessary to let go of control and also strip away the old. In this case, the "old" seems to be the bottling up of ideas and emotions.
Wind is also the trigram that sets things in motion. The initiative comes from Thunder and Wind sets in motion the process of realisation.
So the Wind - Heaven combination also shows the importance of taking the lead to set things in motion, not waiting for others to do it, but taking the lead yourself. This can range from expressing emotions (not expecting others to understand you) to implementing your own ideas.
It's a different translation of the same line. You quoted Ewald, I quoted the translation Hilary used in WikiWing.but its not the same line...is it? just a different translation?
Yes, that is what I cast. 3.1.2.5>7It's a different translation of the same line. You quoted Ewald, I quoted the translation Hilary used in WikiWing.
Just to be crystal clear - did you cast 3.1.2.5 to 7?
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