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I guess I should figure out what my higher goal is. Is a committed relationship a higher goal or does it need to be higher than that?
The thing to ask is are you comitted to your self. I can't see why people expect to build fabulous relationships when they don't even like themselves, aren't comitted to themselves nor reliable to themselves. If they don't have all this they expect the other person to provide it and it can't be done.
All the effort people put into 'securing' the affection of another I think would be better put into finding some affection for themselves. I include myself in that. I'm not saying Asci that you don't value yourself enough but with posts entitled things like "the universe hates me" even in jest - maybe its time just to consider how you feel about yourself - maybe the universe won't come up with a relationship till you've sorted your relationship with your self ?
Excellent advice.
Until we work on ourselves and make the effort to take responsibility for our hang-ups and emotional baggage - the Universe doesn´t care either way. We are totally our own in that respect.
I think the Universe responds only to the light of friction i.e the effort to know ourselves. If it´s not present then we are no different to the amoeba.
But once we make the effort to align ourselves with the Creative Universe and to manifest that flow in our lives, then we become part of its "body" and only then can we see that the Universe is "interested in us" as we have become part of it and thus doing its "work."
It´s a tough old road but we can still have some fun along the way
Topal
I think the Universe responds only to the light of friction i.e the effort to know ourselves. If it´s not present then we are no different to the amoeba.
Topal
- maybe the universe won't come up with a relationship till you've sorted your relationship with your self ?
Regarding the Universe caring, I have no idea. Sometimes I think the universe/God/whatever cares a great deal what I think and do, other times it seems as though the universe is indifferent to what I think or do. I know one thing: I care. And I think that's Trojan's point. And, I find that, though the universe may be indifferent to what I think or do, it still cooperates in a way which benefits me, when I speak or act in accord with the universe. And I think that is Topal's point.
In other words, though it may not be a conscious caring from the universe, it still cooperates more with something that goes with it, in the same direction, and at the same time, than it does with a force going in a direction and timing away from or contrary to that of the universe.
WormYi must truly be a sage he can say so much with so few words - yet he still looks unhappy - he doesn't look like hes found divine peace. Weird cos I remember this song, it went
Nobody loves me, everybody hates me
Going down the garden eating woorms
Big fat juicy ones, slip slap slimy ones
something something something worms ?
Anyway does feeling everyone/everything/the universe hates you have something to do with wormhood and ascending wormhood ? Must do I think.
Looking back looks here like I'm myself could be implying that the universe will somehow reward you for sorting out your head its not what I meant really, I just meant a person would be more ready and able to have a good relationship when they'd done that, but not that it was a reward from on high. I guess thats what Topal was following on from and the title of the thread
For the archives, in the west coast version, the last line is, "Oooshy gooshy, fuzzy wuzzy worms."
Well, crap, I don't know what's wrong. Damn it.
But seriously, with all this New York charm goin' on, why do you think the universe hates you? Just think of all those poor mid-west slobs who can't even buy a date with a chick! Erm, maybe this chick goes more for the sincere type; you know, one who doesn't make a game of bagging a chick? I dunno, are there still girls/women like that?
Maybe the current doesn't want a boyfriend, but still I wouldn't think it's so hard to say "I like being single" this avoids embarrassment and rejection while getting the point across.
Yes, that's why I asked if there still are women who seek sincere guys. I mean, they say they do.. but so many wind up with players. Maybe it's their turn to play? Maybe us guys made our own bed and now we have to sleep in it - alone.
On yourself, I was teasin' you - one east coast smart ass to another.
This is probably one of the few times I'm not up for being teased. I've received a blitzkrieg attack of some creeping crap.
And yes plenty of women play men. Most of them are better at it than men are but the signs of a flaya (female player) are pretty obvious. I did buy her ONE drink and she practically forced me to take her money in return, I refused and practically had to beat her to get'er to stop. Had we done another round she'd have paid I have no doubt.
This is probably one of the few times I'm not up for being teased.
refused and practically had to beat her to get'er to stop. Had we done another round she'd have paid I have no doubt.
Clarity,
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