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I asked, as you suggested, What should I do about my relationship with my husband?The second moving line for Hexagram 44 says that a fish is in the tank and all is well. This means that things are (or were) contained, under control.
The fourth moving line says that there is no fish in the tank. Using the same language as before, it suggests that something might be out of control.
You said this made you think of your relationship with your husband. If your relationship with your husband seems out of control to you, I would urge you to do a divination about your husband, asking something like, "What should I do about my relationship with my husband?"
Jim
Jim
Actually, Jim, It does make sense. We would both need to be in a stable financialWell, it seems to me that you and your husband are going to be parting ways with each other.
Hexagram 47 means Oppression (Exhaustion). It means being hemmed in while still being hopeful. It tells of hard times, but says definitely there is no reason to give up. This speaks to your current situation with your husband, and tells you nothing new except that you must not give up. You must persevere.
Line 5 tells you that you will not attain your will until you have made proper offerings and libations. In other words, if you want to be happy, you are going to need to sacrifice (jettison) your husband.
Line 6 tells you not to do anything about it yet. It says that this realization will make you more content and hopeful, but this is not the time to act. Do not scream, "I want a divorce!" at him just yet, in other words.
In the context of what we have learned so far, Hexagram 64 seems to be telling you the same thing, that this is not the time to cross over to the other side of the river. Bide your time.
I do not know why the I Ching is telling you to refrain from bringing things to a head, but that is what it is saying. However, this does tie in neatly with Hexagram 2 that you received in a previous divination about this general thing. It is interesting how all the bits and pieces of these readings tie in with and reinforce each other.
Perhaps if you wait and are patient, your husband will bring up the matter of divorce, or he will angrily stomp our of your life forever, or whatever. I don't know. You will have to wait and see.
Anyway, this reading as a whole is telling you that you and your husband are going to be going your separate ways, but for you to sit tight and not do anything about it yet.
Jim
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