10.5 to 38 reaction

[SHONNA_D]

Me and my ex we are trying to put things right and make a new start. The thing is he worries about my parents after what happened and what I told them. Ok I am worried too.

What will be the reaction of my parents If I talk to them that we are back together?
hexagram 10 line 5 to hexagram 38.

Ouch! that looks bad!
There will be trouble, there will be danger, there will be peril
Please let me know what do you think.

 

[ernobe]

In 10 there is metal above and below, in 38 there is metal below and fire above. The metal resists fires' attempt to melt it, and could even extinguish it (it injures it). Applied to your situation, your parents will attempt to soften your determination, and you will resist it. I don't know what happened or what you told them, but the double metal of 10 indicates that you've made your case, and they know they can't change it. It's almost as if your boyfriend doesn't have a say either, because you're coming to 38 from a solid place. The danger and peril it mentions will turn out to be surmountable challenges.

 

[equinox]

SHONNA_D, I don't want to derail your thread but since it's obvious that your situation has changed significantly:
It would be a courtesy to all of us and to those people searching through the archives in hope to find advice, to update the relationship threads you started in the last months.

 

[SHONNA_D]

ernobe thank you very much for your answer. Actually I haven't talked to my parents yet but I am sure If I do it there is no way for them to change my mind. Unfortunately, I am afraid they are the tigers. It will be a very difficult thing to do.

equinox the situation between me and my ex is not stable yet so I don't feel ready to update.