11.4 changing to 34

[Miki123]

I asked how does he feel about something I did and received these hexagrams.

 

[Trojina]

I think you have begun a number of threads now asking about the same guy. A few where you got a response but didn't return like this one...https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?24347-Love-advice

and this one https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?24286-How-do-you-interpret-this

You had 8.5 over there in first link and also described the situation. To me it looks like he's just playing games and getting a bit of an ego trip in keeping you guessing. It is fairly common workplace behaviour. To me 8.5 there looked like he's not going to make any great effort to pursue you. I may be wrong though because I cannot read his mind and think in the end you must go by what he says to you and what he actually does.

Also bear in mind the more often you have to ask Yi what he feels the less it seems you have to go on in real life. If he's interested then he needs to show it.

Here is a thread which might help with forming questions https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...42-Blog-post-Advice-for-relationship-readings

I personally would not recommend relying too heavily on 'what is he thinking' questions as you can get somewhat disorientated and end up further back than forward.

 

[Miki123]

Thank you Trojina. It's just that I seem to receive good but also bad readings and I don't know what to think anymore (maybe I don't interpret all of them as I should). Some are giving me hope, some are not. I think I am overexceeding with the subject but if it's on my mind, it's on my mind..
Thanks for the questions tip also, I know I should be more careful at how I formulate them.

Keeping in mind what you said, I asked how genuinely is he interested in me- and got 17 unchanging.
What do I need to know about him? 4.2.4 changing to 35.
Has my actual situation with him potential to progress? 62 unchanging.

I am sorry if this subject may seem unimportant and I insist on it that much- indeed I could consult I Ching for more profound questions, for self discovery, for career..

 

[Miki123]

Thank you Trojina. It's just that I seem to receive good but also bad readings and I don't know what to think anymore (maybe I don't interpret all of them as I should). Some are giving me hope, some are not. I think I am overexceeding with the subject but if it's on my mind, it's on my mind..
Thanks for the questions tip also, I know I should be more careful at how I formulate them.

Keeping in mind what you said, I asked how genuinely is he interested in me- and got 17 unchanging.
What do I need to know about him? 4.2.4 changing to 35.
Has my actual situation with him potential to progress? 62 unchanging.

I am sorry if this subject may seem unimportant and I insist on it that much- indeed I could consult I Ching for more profound questions, for self discovery, for career..

 

[Trojina]

eh ? Why would you imagine you have to ask about career or wotnot ....What's it got to do with lack of profundity...of course it is important....it's just asking more questions about it won't serve you once you have already asked many times and in fact you may mislead yourself. If this guy is not approaching you, asking you to go out with him etc etc my advice is just leave it be. You will not find the answer to what you want to know through more questions here. If one reading looks great and another doesn't you still won't really know what he wants...BUT his behaviour very clearly shows what he wants so look to that.. I advise you not to try to get 'hope' from I Ching readings. You say I think that he flirted then didn't bother with you ? Sounds like he's playing with you doesn't it ? Who knows but you can't hang around forever can you.


Also as I said if people already responded to you in those threads and you didn't go back to them to feedback in any way in the end people are less likely to respond since it becomes a one way process, no exchange, and we learn nothing. So it might be a good idea to continue with those conversations, you know pick up on what those people said to you and go from there ? Just a suggestion. I'll go and read what they said about this on those two other threads

 

[Trojina]

but as we have more readings...apart from those other threads

Keeping in mind what you said, I asked how genuinely is he interested in me- and got 17 unchanging.
What do I need to know about him? 4.2.4 changing to 35.
Has my actual situation with him potential to progress? 62 unchanging.

On what you've said no. He's not showing any initiative in pursuing you and it looks like you don't know much about him.....But if I said 'no there is no potential' would that mean you didn't need to ask again. The truth is I am not able to know through this or any reading ultimately what potential there is between two people. It's not for me to know. But I Ching aside , just me speaking, I think you will get more and more hurt waiting around for this guy. I may be wrong