11 uc

[SHONNA_D]

I have read the experiences of the unchanging hexagram 11. It's complicated I think.
My question was: Will a man come into my life that he will truly love me?
The answer was just a plain hexagram 11.
"The small departs... the great approaches"

Does this mean that sth great is coming into my life? Do you think is auspicious?
Your thoughts?

 

[moss elk]

hi,

11 unchanging=
Heaven/Male and Earth/Female come together. It is a picture of what you want.

I realize that you recently went through a breakup and have had a hard time of it.
(most people do for a time.) You have asked different versions of this question a few times so, now I think you would be better served with a different kind of question. Something like, 'How can I get there?' or 'What would be good to do to help this come to be?' 'what should I focus on to create this?' ... these kinds of questions will be more helpful.

I am probably a generation older than you. When I look back at the bad relationships in my life (Ones where the breakups hurt at the time.) I can now honestly say, 'Wow! that was a pretty awful person in some ways, how wonderful it is to be free of them!'
I can laugh about them now,
free from the delusion that they were good for me at all.

 

[RindaR]

Yes, what Moss Elk said.

 

[SHONNA_D]

Thank you Moss Elk for your post. You are right, it's coming a day that you look back and realize that you tried to keep people in your life that you should have left them free.
I really hope that I will find someone who makes me happy.