14, 4 in the context of relationship/rejection

[Juniperist]

I have been seeing someone, someone I really value, on and off - he is also an old friend. But he has rejected me, and now he is with someone else and seems to have shut me off. I've cast to see if our story was over, whether we were done - and got 14 and I have no idea how to interpret it. Right now, I am not seeing him, I feel terrible about myself, but then I don't know what to make of the 14 (changing line 4, 2, transformed 22).

Does it imply to me that I do possess a lot of things of value and should not be greedy (and be jealous of them about what I dont have; which is their relationship)? I am not sure - I just am not sure what I should be thinking of 14 in this context. What about line 4, and 22?

Any ideas? Any experiences with 14, 4?

 

[meng]

I feel terrible about myself... Any experiences with 14, 4?

Yes, I most often get 14 when I'm feeling terrible about myself. It's like the Yi spirit hugging, saying, there there.. you have plenty going for you!

Line 4 is the wrong time to enter pissing matches. Just accept the differences.