16.3>62 as feelings and 24.1.2>7 as future relationship potential/advice

[reverie]

Some time ago I met a woman that I feel very connected to. We were (still are) friends and the mutual attraction was quite insane. I offered her a date, but my offer came slightly too late. She thought I wasn't that interested (romantically) and already started seeing someone. We were both confused with this situation and regretted how things turned out. The attraction didn't just stop, the situation got stuck.

I asked about her feelings and got 16.3>62.
16.3 is pretty clear and accurate I think. 62 as the resulting suppression of feelings maybe or am I wrong?

Then I asked if there is potential for a future romantic relationship or if I should just let go. I got 24.1.2>7.
This one is puzzling to me. It is about comebacks and integrity, but you can spin this both ways. I feel quite devoted to her (it's well deserved) and just letting this go would feel a little bit like I lost my integrity, but maybe it's the opposite case and I'll regain my integrity by letting go? Please help me understand this.

In the meantime I also asked a similar question - if this situation is 'fixable' and got 28.2.4>39.
Well, yes, this situation is quite a test of faith and an obstacle, too.

Thank you very much for your help!

 

[Meursault]

Hello, let me try to breakdown one reading at a time. 16.3>62. 16.3 is pretty clear to you, admiration and respect is mutual, so I'll jump to 62 which in my interpretation is small steps, because you know already that you have that friendship/respect, it is best for you both to make little steps into making this foundation strong. But you have to have pure innocent intent since she is already seeing someone else. Be honest about your goals for now as her friend. with the reading 24.1.2>7 re your future, this is a positive one as 24 talks about a turning point and 1 refers to holding your innocence steadily as to not diverting into evil thoughts or all maybe lost. 2 speaks of a love you deserve. hex 7 indicates that if the time is ripe for both of you, then you must take the lead, maybe ask her out again if she is single. 28.2.4>39 - present -- 28 image has two broken lines above and below with strong lines in the middle which as wilhelm has interpreted as outer appearances should not come of as weak, meaning as you progress to becoming closer/friends, your desires for her must not come out as your priority but getting to know her. she might see you as someone who isn't genuine. the lines 2/4 makes sense with your future reading as it says ulterior motives will be humiliating. And lastly 39, sums up everything for her own needs and wants, if she sees your motives are pure, all will be well, if not, 39 speaks of obstruction. If we detach ourselves for what is our goals in front of us, we lose sight of the finish line.

 

[reverie]

Thank you very much for your interpretation! It's very much in line with the answer I received when asking another question - what is the correct course of action in this case. I got 13.3>25, which stands for friendship, communication and pure innocent intent as I interpreted it.

To be clear, there is no evil intent and I really don't want to force this. I'd say it's a spiritual connection with physical attraction as a bonus. She is very special to me and my admiration for her is honest.