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Do I possess the qualities so that I am able to make a relationship work?64.4>4
It's been 11 months since me and my ex split, we spent the new year together :/
We have decided to just see what happens.. The connection is still there obviously, and I want to be with him but I am not sure I am ready, I want to give my everything to the person I love.
Am I ready? :/
 

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Do I possess the qualities so that I am able to make a relationship work?64.4>4
It's been 11 months since me and my ex split, we spent the new year together :/
We have decided to just see what happens.. The connection is still there obviously, and I want to be with him but I am not sure I am ready, I want to give my everything to the person I love.
Am I ready? :/
I think I remember this guy....I remember me and DWF ranting on about his treatment of you. One time he instructed you not to speak to him for a week right ? He was as I recall quite emotionally cruel to you. You never knew where you stood, were very insecure, one moment he wanted you the next moment he didn't. Is it the same guy ?


Well the reading would seem to be saying yes you can make it work but it is going to be very hard work and I wonder if there is the question of whether you are really strong enough to go through all that again ? If its the same guy I wonder if you need to look through some of your old posts about him because he really did put you through it,,,,and the reading looks like those old issues will return. That is what the 'demon territory' is...something threatening to your peace of mind and stability.


Its possible but can you face it ? Personally from what I recall he really destabilises you, injures you even.....but only you know him and you say you love him so its up to you but I do remember he cost you alot....if its him

Actually you phrased the question in an interesting way asking if you had the qualities to do it. Looks like you have but its not easy. With this cast I personally would ask myself how much strength I had available. if you have alot else to cope with it might be a bit too demanding at times.....but the choice is yours...it's certainly not saying 'you can't do it', its saying you can....eventually with a huge amount of effort .


I may be prejudice because of memories of previous threads about this guy. Of course if its not the same guy disregard my comments.....and anyway perhaps he has changed ? People do change I suppose.
 
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