18 -> 29

[deusa]

hi
i need help interpreting this reading.
i asked what is going to happen in relation to a certain man.
we were starting a relationship and he "disappeared" but i have the feeling this isn't over and i wanted to understans:
- if he is coming back
- what to do if he does.

my first interpretation was that he is coming back, but it is going to be a really hard situation for us, so i have to be fluid and stay calm in my inside, so to say.
but i was wondering if any of you has any help to give me.

i also have some difficulty interpreting the changing lines...
all this has some relationship with his (and mine?) past and family experiences. he is repeating the pattern he learnt from his mother. i am breaking a pattern i learned from my mother (i have the temptation to write that, being a woman, i transform, something that is harder for a man, ihih!).

thanks.

 

[deusa]

Please

Somebody help me!!!

 

[deusa]

Nobody answers me... Well...
I aslked "what if there for me in the relationship with A".
It came out 10.4.6 -> 60...
I am a bit confused...
It doesn't seem too bad, is it?

 

[deusa]

i know i'm new, and nobody knows me, but i would really liek to get to understand more of the iching...

nobody said anything!
pleeeease!

i've been very brave, no asking and asking the oracle, but reading about my readings, and letting time pass by to understand what they mean.

but some of your discussions are so interesting! and there are few readings that match mine...

is anybody willing to help me?
thanks

 

[diamanda]

i asked what is going to happen in relation to a certain man
18,3,5,6>29

This guy has done something wrong to you, and you made it very clear to him that you didn't like it. He genuinely tries to fix his mistake, and although it appears that he manages to correct his mistake, unfortunately he will repeat the same over and over again. In your case this might mean that yes, he will come back, will apologise, will try to be a better partner for you, but somehow he is unstable and will never manage to be what you want him to be.

what if there for me in the relationship with A
10.4.6>60
He sounds like a very difficult character to be with. You'll be treading on eggshells with him. However, there will be some nice times too. Be careful because the hidden line speaks of someone who is all words and no action. You will get limited satisfaction from your relationship with him.

Sorry I wish the answers sounded better... hope I'm wrong, wishing you good luck!

 

[deusa]

Thanks!

I'm amazed! How can you get those insights so well?

Apparently the best thing would be to just leave him alone...

Thanks again...

After all i read, i couldn't get what you got!!

 

[deusa]

I asked the i ching

How should i behave with A in order to feel happy, joyful, complete?

35.6 - 16

Whenever i do a reading, all is blank first. Slowly, as days go by and i read here and there, i feel more secure of an answer.
And then you come, diamanda, and you state clearly what's going on just by looking at the readings! I'm amazed!

 

[juaneros]

Hi! 35>16: I think you have to know that there has been progress since you guys separated, and this progress can be further achieved if you do not react to any confrontation that might come up, even though you might be right to any confrontation, it can become a vicious cycle, and that's something that is not necessary at this point for you. Think progress, let bygones be bygones

G'luck!

 

[deusa]

What puzzles me is that what i read about 35.6 states both that one has to avoid going with the horne down, so to say, and also that one should avoid too much pressure...

I haven't exactly been pressuring, but i do send an sms once in a while, stating how i'm feeling.
He doesn't answer all together but i know i reach him inside. He loves me and i know that, it is all his situation that prevents him from coming to me. We have a very strange and special connection. He made a choice with his head, against his heart.

BUT i don't want to hang on for nothing...

 

[deusa]

Diamanda was just right.
He did something wrong to me which was telling me it was off by mail and refusing to talk or see me (i haven't insisted much, i have my pride).
He fears to see me because he will go back on his decision FOR SURE if he sees me.

 

[deusa]

Then i wonder:
Should i just give him up and go on with my life?
And there comes 35.6-16!!!

 

[juaneros]

Hi Again!

Yeah Deusa, love relationships are a complicated matter. I think the I Ching just advises what is necessary to remove that blockage between him and you, and in your case to progress to feel happy. Your first questions dealt with the potentiality of your relationship, I would really focus on those to be clear if you want to be with that type of person. Anyhow, wish you luck!

 

[deusa]

Thanks juaneros
I really feel there isn't much i can do but wait having this information in mind.
Nothing can go really that wrong, after all!
To lose somebody can be a blessing, when one looks at it after some years...