22.4 22.5 >13

[springflower]

Dear all, I am here again to bother you with my ex fiance story... I know it's a long story...We have a contact.
Here is my question:

Where does our 'relationship' go?
22.4 22.5>13
> Confusion prevents union or Unseen forces are working toward unity at the proper time.
> disappointment but sincerity. A small sacrifice is appreciated.Internal desires and sincere feelings are all that truly matter. I really wish he could open his heart to me and speak about us, about our relationship even if he has so disappointed me. Is this line shows that?
13 What was there distress and obstruction is here a union of forces.
Blofeld: This hexagram symbolizes heaven (the sun) and fire representing a pair of lovers.

It seems to me something good but I need your point of view.

Thank you in advance.

 

[Trojina]

You don't need our point of view you need his point of view. His point of view is what you need to listen to, no one else's

 

[TaoYinYang]

In my experience the I Ching doesn't work off of the unlimited future. 22.4 is the pegasus which is a transcendent grace probably symbolizing love. 22.5 is a humble offering of one's self to a lofty other/lover. This brings you into the fellowship of 13. Which is a communing but not necessarily a union. These conditions will change & evolve so stay on your feet.

 

[springflower]

Thank you both for your answers.
I am wondering if 22.4 shows illusions and nothing more and 13 friendship.

 

[springflower]

If anyone could help more.. I asked if our relationship is doomed (if its over) 47.2>45
47 There is no water in the lake (oppression)
45 a marshy lake rising above the earth(Gathering Together)

Any insight?

 

[TaoYinYang]

The lines of Grace represent the positive strength of your own love or adoration for this person. 13 represents coming together and is not definitive one way or the other about love. A walk in the park together or a phone call can be 13, I think.

Oddly I think the next reading represents your exhausted worries turning to the helpers of the I Ching. And that 45 Gathering Together is turning to the online community for support or solutions.

Go easy.

 

[cornucopia63]

Hello,

Don't worry everything will go well.