23.1.5-42

[Grandma]

there is this guy that i like but i am not sure how he feels about me.
we had a big fight last month and i was not going to contact him again but he called me after a few weeks
the trouble is we are not in a relationship but just talk very flirty onthe phone sometimes.he has lots of business problems (mostly his own fault) he is self employed and i know that it is very stressful)one thing that greatly bothers me is that the relationship we do have is mostly on his terms.
i wondered if next time we do speak if i should tell him that i want a real relationship and i don't really want to be flirty on the phone and not see him
i asked if i should tell him what i want and what i don't want from him (end the phone relationship if i cant' have what i want) and got 23.1.5-42
on another thread someone said that line 5 was be content with small gains and line 1 was not to say anything.

 

[tifa]

Hex 23.1.5>42

I would interpret the moving lines as a complete yes. Tell him what you want and don't want from him. Hex 23 suggests stripping things apart and show him your cards.

Resultant 42 suggests this action will do you good.

good luck
T

 

[pocossin]

Should I tell him what I want and what I don't want from him?
23.1.5 > 42

Yes, I agree with tifa. Breakdown (hex 23) the situation for him. It isn't fair to you, and he doesn't have a leg to stand on (line 1). Perhaps you could help him in his business (line 5). And however he takes it, you'll have an increase in clarity (hex 42).

 

[Grandma]

Thanks so much Tifa and Pocassin
Well, next time he calls, cause I do not have plans on calling him, I will gently tell him I want a real relationship where I have some rights and where I don't alsways feel like it's all up to him and not what we have.
I really did not think it was telling me to do that but I am so glad that it seems to be that interpretation
I think it will do me good, actually already I feel like I have control now that I will say that if he ever does call me again that is!!
I really like the interpretation that says he doesn't have a leg to stand on.And I would help him with his business but he won't let me.

Well see how it goes.
thanks
Susan