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hebe

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Hello,

At the risk of your exasperation as nobody replied to this question a little while ago I come back with it as i am still trying to understand it and just can't make sense of it. I considered that I am being shallow with the I Ching and just expecting answers without really looking deeply, but I have sat with this question and every time I come back to the hexagram with as many different interpretations as I can find from old threads, Lise, Hilary, Legge - I just don't understand or get a real ok, that's my direction with this quesion. The question was how should I proceed with our relationship. 26: 3,5 and 6. Sometimes i feel its the holding back and then the doubt clicks in and reads it as holding together. The moving lines make no sense to me... I just don't get them.

Am sure that the I Ching is truthful and I so want to get to the truth of what to do with this ongoing nightmare. But I need to be able to trust the answer I am getting as this is such a big life question.

The moving lines could refer to me pursuing my own path -my own ideals (3) and that the line at 5 is talking about Paul having been removed from this country with the capcity to 'harm' me - ie living together in a stagnant relationship...where I unwittingly put all my hopes and dreams onto him as the be all and end all...this would make sense of 54 as the hidden possibility. and then nine above? are we still talking about the marriage here... heavens highway - with him or without? I just don't get it. I don't feel a clear direction of advice here - and I know there must be some inside this question and lines.

No need to answer this next one but if it helps anyone with the context of this thread, the hexagram on what would be the result of my leaving him was 15 with 2 and 6. My feeling on this is the hidden possibility of 40 - being freed from compulsion and tension (in the long run I guess). As I am really wanting help here I will stick to the first question and see if anyone feels like adding their insight or experience with this. I can talk about this quite lightly here, but the emotions inside when I consider leaving him are just massive and i feel so stuck with this ongoing life crisis. It has got to change soon - something has got to give if its not to be my sanity! Thank you, Hebe
 
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hebe

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and just one more thought on this saturday morning - this is my feeling perhaps it has evolved from a couple of weeks with just sitting with the words and symbols. The enclosed cart could be something that I have been carrying along as my purpose, my gifts, hopes and dreams : line 3: Pursuing a fine horse, divination: drudgery is advantageous. It is spoken thus: you are escorting an enclosed cart. It is advantageous to have a direction to go. In which case perhaps this time is just one of focusing on our own things - but because I still get so entangled emotionally and consequently asked the question because part of me is just wanting to end this whole nightmare and if the I Ching gave guidance to say 'Yes, this is the time baby, let go and it will work out.'.... or - 'Hey, don't give up on this relationship, focus on yourself yes, but don't let this treasure go' ...this is what I am trying to get at.....any thoughts??
 

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