26.4.6>34 meaning that I have to do ....what?

[Tinetile]

I asked the Oracle what should I do for my partner to want a real relationship with me.
And the answer was 26.4.6>34
I don't understand...what meaning "not eating at home, good fortune. Fruitful to cross the great river." ?

and, in the end , what position should I have? !?

 

[Sixth Relative]

Hi Tinetile

The reference to not eating at home is to sacrifice self interest and leave one's comfort zone to benefit the public (others; the common good, etc).

When the question is "how to..." or advice, I focus myself on the Image. For hex 26: " Heaven within the mountain: The image of THE TAMING POWER OF THE GREAT. Thus the superior man acquaints himself with many sayings of antiquity and many deeds of the past, in order to strengthen his character thereby."

So, this is a strategy of self-development, to improve one's personality and character.

 

[diamanda]

Invite him to your place, give him bliss, focus on sexuality.

 

[Sixth Relative]

Is this the same person than these?
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?22311-Hexagram-19-into-49-with-specifically-lines-2-3-4-5

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?22337-17-4-5-gt-24-relationship

 

[Tinetile]

So that means for me to change my attitude.
Because until now we have been kind to him, in the future I should not be so kind?
The changing lines, 4 and 6, show the same thing?

 

[Tinetile]

Yes. Meanwhile we talked, I made my intentions known and my limitations ( I was ready to stop ) , and things go forward between us. Apparently he is not ready to quit.