28.1 > 43

[Lettuce]

if you were asking if someone was interested in a person romantically and they received 28.1 > 43 how would you interpret it. That it would be too dangerous and too much of an enterprise so they decide to go on their merry way. Or could it be taking care over a decision as to whether it is something they want or not/or worth investing in as it may feel like they are taking on too much.

any suggestions would be welcome please

 

[my_key]

if you were asking if someone was interested in a person romantically and they received 28.1 > 43 how would you interpret it. That it would be too dangerous and too much of an enterprise so they decide to go on their merry way. Or could it be taking care over a decision as to whether it is something they want or not/or worth investing in as it may feel like they are taking on too much.

any suggestions would be welcome please

28 <> 43

28 'Great Traverses' speaks to points of 'crisis' and how they might be worked through. It identifies a situation that is weak at either end and ready to topple over. To counter this, it advocates, in the image, that steps are taken by you to stand firmly and resolutely alone in making your own mind up and in so doing you can then retire from the age without any sadness or regrets.

This situation is wrapped firmly within a context of 43 'Deciding and Parting' which directs making your decision in a clear manner, without engaging with any negative or confused thinking. Then letting it be known to all what you have decided. You can then part from the indecision. Dithering about your decision, not making it clear or not standing firmly in your power, i.e. having your needs met, will only lead to calamity.

28.1 Keep it all clean and simple. Understand your motivations. Position yourself and what you want at the centre of your decision making and there will be no mistake.

... or there may be other interpretations that speak louder to you.

Good Luck

 

[Lettuce]

thanks, there is certainly room fir thought. Difficult to know what the outcome will be but will try to update.

i like your interp fir live one it definitely fits the situation x

 

[breakmov]

I would see an answer about the intention of the person asking.....the answer would show that person considering how to make a decided change in something that is on standby, "weakening" as time passes.

breakmov

 

[Hans_K]

if you were asking if someone was interested in a person romantically and they received 28.1 > 43 how would you interpret it. That it would be too dangerous and too much of an enterprise so they decide to go on their merry way. Or could it be taking care over a decision as to whether it is something they want or not/or worth investing in as it may feel like they are taking on too much.

any suggestions would be welcome please

I wonder what else is going on in this situation?

In H28, there is tension, a crisis to be resolved.
An abundance of yang energy that needs to be resolved. Hence the text of Judgement talks about the ridge pole sagging. H43 is about eliminating the inferior, the weak (upper yin line).
The combination of H28 and H43 paints a picture of something causing tension or a crisis situation that needs to be addressed.

Trigram Wind turns into Heaven because of the moving yin line at the 1st position. This is about delaying the completion of a process before something new can be started. Trigram Heaven advises focusing on the goal, the intention. To proceed in a structured way.

For both H28 and H43, H1 is the nuclear hexagram.
The text of the Inage of H1 says:

...
Thus the superior person strengthens himself without pause.

This again shows that something needs to be done, a inner change must be made.

The question in this case is whether there is a romantic interest here or something else. All the trigrams of the answer, Heaven, Wind and Lake are connected to the mental aspect/thinking. Combined with the explanation of the hexagrams, you would expect a platonic relationship rather than a romantic one in this case.

This would be my interpretation. As always, take what resonates and leave the rest

 

[Lettuce]

I would see an answer about the intention of the person asking.....the answer would show that person considering how to make a decided change in something that is on standby, "weakening" as time passes.

breakmov

28 <> 43

28 'Great Traverses' speaks to points of 'crisis' and how they might be worked through. It identifies a situation that is weak at either end and ready to topple over. To counter this, it advocates, in the image, that steps are taken by you to stand firmly and resolutely alone in making your own mind up and in so doing you can then retire from the age without any sadness or regrets.

This situation is wrapped firmly within a context of 43 'Deciding and Parting' which directs making your decision in a clear manner, without engaging with any negative or confused thinking. Then letting it be known to all what you have decided. You can then part from the indecision. Dithering about your decision, not making it clear or not standing firmly in your power, i.e. having your needs met, will only lead to calamity.

28.1 Keep it all clean and simple. Understand your motivations. Position yourself and what you want at the centre of your decision making and there will be no mistake.

... or there may be other interpretations that speak louder to you.

Good Luck

I just re read this today. And instead of wondering what the other persons intentions were I sat with myself to see what my intentions were and what I wanted. I decided in my mind with clarity that I would bring the matter to a close which is exactly what I did. Very interesting read my_key!

 

[Lettuce]

I would see an answer about the intention of the person asking.....the answer would show that person considering how to make a decided change in something that is on standby, "weakening" as time passes.

breakmov

this also resonates with your reading too

 

[Lettuce]

I wonder what else is going on in this situation?

In H28, there is tension, a crisis to be resolved.
An abundance of yang energy that needs to be resolved. Hence I the text of Judgement talks about the ridge pole sagging. H43 is about eliminating the inferior, the weak (upper yin line).
The combination of H28 and H43 paints a picture of something causing tension or a crisis situation that needs to be addressed.

Trigram Wind turns into Heaven because of the moving yin line at the 1st position. This is about delaying the completion of a process before something new can be started. Trigram Heaven advises focusing on the goal, the intention. To proceed in a structured way.

For both H28 and H43, H1 is the nuclear hexagram.
The text of the Inage of H1 says:

This again shows that something needs to be done, a inner change must be made.

The question in this case is whether there is a romantic interest here or something else. All the trigrams of the answer, Heaven, Wind and Lake are connected to the mental aspect/thinking. Combined with the explanation of the hexagrams, you would expect a platonic relationship rather than a romantic one in this case.

This would be my interpretation. As always, take what resonates and leave the rest

and a platonic relationship I am sure will be the outcome as we connected on a more spiritual brotherly/ sisterly way. I did a second reading on his feelings and it was 8.4 which often, from my experience reflects a friendship within a wider circle of friends. Which is spot on regarding our situation

 

[moss elk]

28.1?
Someone should be let-down or
put-down gently.

For their sake or for the sake of your friend.

 

[Lettuce]

i thought i would update this thread as just came across it as i received the same answer again for the same question about the same person!

This is a person i connected with in October last year abroad. we continued to communicate up till now. There was definitely romantic interest and talk of him coming over to the uk but this was an impulsive decision and too much! hence the 28. I think his feelings remain the same as in the beginning. If circumstances were different and not such a huge investment was required there could have been some potential there but it all feels like too much. I think the 28.1 is referring to how every word and move we make holds so much weight as the connection is pretty fragile.

The general feel of the reading is that there is a connection but there is too much pressure on this connection to make it tangible. He is being overly cautious in what he is deciding he wants from this and whether it is worth it. This would make sense for the present situation too.

How interesting it came up at the beginning and now for how he feels.

 

[Lettuce]

and a platonic relationship I am sure will be the outcome as we connected on a more spiritual brotherly/ sisterly way. I did a second reading on his feelings and it was 8.4 which often, from my experience reflects a friendship within a wider circle of friends. Which is spot on regarding our situation

i would say 8.4 in this context is the beginning of a connection as opposed to a platonic connection as there was definitely romantic interest

 

[thisismybody]

I once got 28.1 for my injured shoulder. It was weak. I needed to be cautious with it because of a slap-tear.

Concerning feelings, someone’s feelings are either lacking or need to be bolstered.

 

[Herny Zahir]

28 ->43 the decision taken is too strong. its not time yet, things need to be more sutile. Possibilities? Pretty high if the person is into bold young partners. If not its a waste of time.

 

[Herny Zahir]

I just re read this today. And instead of wondering what the other persons intentions were I sat with myself to see what my intentions were and what I wanted. I decided in my mind with clarity that I would bring the matter to a close which is exactly what I did. Very interesting read my_key!

This is the best part. 28th, first (L1) in the morning, the decision was taken (43) TY