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28 becoming 33, regarding the future of a relationship? I'm a bit lost...
In my practical experience, I have find many times 28>33 as answer to romantic issues.
And most of the time, the answer unfold in fact not in the terms of withdrawn from the relation; but withdrawn from the emotional tension related to the issue.
Hex 28.2,6 > 33
Hex 28.2 an older man takes a younger wife very good. An older relationship gets a new lease of life. Reanimated.
Hex 28.6 says that you are in over your head in this one, you are taking a great risk and sacrifices will have to be made. Is this relationship so important, some things are worth chasing is this one of them? Is love so true?
Hex 33 Suggests that you withdraw from the relationship temporarily to ponder the situation, to take time to see what is going on. In any conflict it takes two to fight, so retreating allows you to strengthen your arguments or whatever, then you can meet the other half on your terms when the time is right. Therefore, totally avoid a head to head conflict that you cannot win. Keep the other half away from you while you prepare yourself for the next meeting.
28 changing to 33, regarding the future of a relationship. Can anyone help...?
28 changing to 33, regarding the future of a relationship. Can anyone help...?
Hex 33 Suggests that you withdraw from the relationship temporarily to ponder the situation, to take time to see what is going on. In any conflict it takes two to fight, so retreating allows you to strengthen your arguments or whatever, then you can meet the other half on your terms when the time is right. Therefore, totally avoid a head to head conflict that you cannot win. Keep the other half away from you while you prepare yourself for the next meeting.
Hi Solina,
Can't sleep at the moment so I'll give it a go
Not much detail to go on but either you're giving yourself too harder time or the situation in general is causing the "roof beam" to sag under the emotional weight of it all. Something's gotta give as everything has expanded too much. So, lots of growth happening - too much in fact, losts of static and emotional electricity making things difficult to see the situation objectively. (never easy within relationships of course...) Big potential here though, in one way or another. If you step back a bit. And when I say "potential" I kinda mean that from a soul point of view which is often not what we want but is what we need.
The way I experienced line 2 is about the introduction of a new perspective or action that invigorates the situation. Step back and take a more philosophilcal look on it. Doesn't mean don't do anything but take five and try to view it dispassionately if possible in order to see what your next move might be. If you don't you're in danger of going under as it'll all prove too much. Attend to state of mind and repair the roof BEFORE it breaks completely then you'll usher in new possibilities.
Alternatively it could be one of those big lessons that you need to go through that's pretty horrible for the "you down here" but damn enriching for the soul "up there"! So, this seems to be the line of self sacrifice, which is fine, if that's what you're prepared to go for. be sure that's what you want as it could get to that point if you go on wit this pressure.
33 reiterates this point; to retreat from this pressure and ease up. It doesn't mean run away necessarily, it's more a tactical retreat to conserve your resources. That'll give you some time to weigh up the pros and cons of the situation. Perhaps this means take a break, go away for the weekend or get some space between you and the pressure by any means that is practical.
This thread's now the product of merging with the out-of-place duplicate in the 'Discussion' forum. All the posts from both threads are plunked in together in order of posting, which may make things a tad incoherent at times, but at least they're all here.
Thanks, guys. I find all of these quite useful and appropriate. The thing is that the relationship is really good, with full understanding and affection, but he is going through a nasty divorce and the wife has become a bit... well, strange and forceful lately. So, I suppose the answer would be that I back up a bit till the situation clears out, right? I'm kind of hoping that "withdrawal" doesn't really mean totally giving up since it would be really painful to lose something so good.
Hex 33 suggests that you withdraw from the relationship temporarily not for ever. Now I understand why, there is definitely an enemy on the loose, his wife and she could be a danger to you, not him as I first thought. You have to avoid a head to head conflict with her not him, she is the one the hex is advising you to retreat from, keep from contacting face to face. Saying wait to make contact with her if you must until after the divorce has been finalized. Overall, becareful.
Hex 33 indicates the time around the middle of July, if that means anything to you.
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