29.1.4.5 > 54 what was his reaction to /feeling about me

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29.1.4.5 > 54

this really was not the impression I was trying to make but I asked yi and this was my answer. This is about Mr. 25 > 35 by the way, for anyone who read that thread.

54 does make sense as the context, I actually met him through his organisation which the charity I'm volunteering for is going to support. So the setting for attraction was inappropriate, but I really didn't expect him to be so attractive, he was totally different from what I thought he would be , anyway. Also what icastes said in dragonas thread is making me hopeful, that 54 can be:

physical passion violating conventional mores.

bring it on.

I suppose there really isn't much mystery here but I've been exploring 29 lately.

Is it plain and simple fear. 18 seems to describe subconscious drives and conditioning. So is 29 your fight or flight reaction.

I've also got this picture of it being similar to the chariot in tarot, that sense of courage being commitment despite fear and danger.

the lines, 1. his initial reaction was that this is dangerous, line 4 but then he saw a way out line 5 he can move with/past the danger

hmmm. I not very good with my own readings!

 

[icastes]

One must remember that the trigram of water (two yin lines with a yang line in between) is a symbol for sex and lust. The point of 29 is that if the basis of this attraction is a matter of lust, then, of course, there will be no real chance for success in love. Such an attraction only brings anguish. The 54, once again, warns against inappropriate behavior on the account of lust or sexual desire. And even if the moving fourth line indicates some degree of hope. the fifth line is Sisyphean in character and thus indicates failure. Your "bring it on" indicates an inappropriate approach to this attraction. The 54 indicates that there could be a very good and even tender intimacy for a while between the parties, but it only temporary and ends in separation.

I don't think, moreover, that 29 is flight or fight. It is really about having faith in periods of adversity when it is necessary to take a journey to change one's fortune. If the attitude is correct and there is the proper mental and emotional preparation, then there is a way out of the abyss.

 

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29...grrroooowellll!

I know I know, I am a bit inappropriate but I cant help myself

I guess the last opportunity I had (sexual chemistry thread) slipped away and I don't want to miss out on this one.

It is really about having faith in periods of adversity when it is necessary to take a journey to change one's fortune. If the attitude is correct and there is the proper mental and emotional preparation, then there is a way out of the abyss.

so really the mature person is the one who can ride these waters.

thanks icastes!