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Hi all
I am new here, so forgive me if I post in the wrong thread, am kind of lost
I asked the question "What may I do to improve this situation" concerning a troubling situation I am in. And I got 29 unchanged. After some readings in this forum, I came to the conclusion that there is nothing I can do - apart maybe being sincere. But in this situation, being sincere never served me, as the person who I am in this situation with never seems to be able to believe anything I say...
I am aware that my explanation isn't very clear. But any advise to understand this hex 29 would be very welcome
Thanks for the answer Trojan. That's what I thought. I better escape from the situation as it seems there is no reason to stay in it, apart for just staying in it.
But this brings an other question. Does this hex gives an insight of the futur? I mean, will this "riding the danger again and again" still be true after time have past? Because I feel there are things that can and should be fixed.
Hi Trojan
I think my mind is set now for what I must do. I have to rebuilt my life as it was set to ashes by circumstancies (like so many people around the world) and because all my energy and courage were used to face this situation. So this means, leaving the situation.
The situation is about a girlfriend I've lived with, but not anymore since one year. Our relation was always passionate, but also tense due partly because of psychological wounds from her youth in her native country. The tension has grown to a point where all aspect of life became difficult. In the same time, I lost my job, my flat and my remaining illusions about life.
Now we don't talk to each other since a few days. It may be that it is the best thing that happens to me lately. But this relation was also deeper than any other I had and - that can sound a bit paradoxal - in a way a lot more stable too. So I can't just leave without looking back. Besides, she is in a very difficult situation, and it breaks my heart leaving her in it.
So when I asked : What may I do to improve this situation, I wanted to know if there is a way to bent it a bit in order to reach a state where calm communication is possible. I understand the answer is no. What I understand from what I read about 29 including your posts is that 29 shows a desperate situation - wich you could live with if it was for exemple about your disabled son. But it shows no possibility of improvement. Am I right?
Actually, when I read the verses of the translation, it doesn't appear to me that it is so desperate
The Abysmal repeated.
If you are sincere, you have success in your heart,
And whatever you do succeeds.
Water flows on uninterruptedly and reaches its goal:
The image of the Abysmal repeated.
Thus the superior man walks in lasting virtue
And carries on the business of teaching.
There is talk about succes, about reaching its goal.
But when I look at myself in this situation, I see no possibility of improvement. Thats by the way wy I asked the question in the first place.
Hey Chirimiskuay,
You asked "What may I do to improve this situation", and the answer was confront your fears. I know this is confusing when you are in the middle, but from an independent point of view it's straight and clear... maybe what's keeping you in this relation it is your fear of loss and not attraction. You should ground yourself, keep your heart steady and go through this painful analysis. ask yourself what are you afraid of ? losing her? afraid of not finding another "soul-mate" ? whatever it is just confront it and after that you will be able to walk the middle way. and this will surely improve things . hope it makes sense.
G
Clarity,
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