3 going to 2

[deekristen]

Hello everybody!!!

Thank you very much for putting up with the last week, you all were very nice to me.
Now i have another question, i actually found this one on the site, i would never make up this question by myself. I like reading through the threads about the lines i like and in one of these someone asked this question and i really liked it so i decided to ask it myself. And the answer made me laugh... really
The question is: How do i appear to men generally?
The answer is 3 with lines 1 and 5 going to 2...
Does this mean that they first see me as a cold bi**h and than as they get to know me, i am not that bad.
Difficulty at the beginning is a very funny and true answer indeed i appear very cold and distant at first but once you start talking to me, i am not that bad
Any ideas?

Much Love...
D.

 

[deekristen]

Thank you for putting up with "ME"... Me is missing in the sentence

 

[willowfox]

How do i appear to men generally, 3 with lines 1 and 5 going to 2...

Or are you an impatient person who does indeed have problems with other people around you, people who pick at you to expose your underlying faults? So, you have to resort to standing in the background, giving the impression that you are shy and retiring. But you are very feminine person who does indeed strive to please.

 

[psi232]

Thank you for putting up with "ME"... Me is missing in the sentence

nice catch

 

[deekristen]

Thanks willowfox for your help,
but really no i dont stand in the background or look shy at all. I get along quite well wth people around me too I think the problem is that i always start having a friendship even with the guys i want, i dont have control over my friendlyness
Thanks again...
D.

 

[Trojina]

Unless men were one homogenous mass, sharing one brain cell..how would the question even be answerable. i expect each man sees you differently according to age, personality, sexual orientation, role and a 1000 other factors, them being human beings and not an especial breed. My question to you, and it might be more useful to you is 'how do you see men'. Your answer may show the chaotic profusion of the question...what men where ? Are you just referring to men you might want a sexual relationship with...but why would you think even narrowing down to that, that they'd all think the same thing about you ? The question really baffles me..what is it you really want to know ?

 

[deekristen]

I thought about asking that too, but than again i dont wanna know the answer now, now is not a good time to be learning the truth of that for me.
Thanks though...
D.

 

[deekristen]

Sorry i didnt the rest of ur answer trojan, İ didnt wanna learn any specific thing about how guys think, i just saw this question and the answers that u guys gave, and those answers really helped a lot (to the person who asked the question). So i figured i could ask the same and get some feedback about me. I guess my answer didnt turn out to be as helpful to me.

 

[Trojina]

Sorry i didnt the rest of ur answer trojan, İ didnt wanna learn any specific thing about how guys think, i just saw this question and the answers that u guys gave, and those answers really helped a lot (to the person who asked the question). So i figured i could ask the same and get some feedback about me. I guess my answer didnt turn out to be as helpful to me.

oh its okay i wasn't expecting you to answer..it was a sort of rhetorical question. I can't imagine how people could have told the person what men men thought of her cos like i said..what men where ? I'm thinking the real question is buried underneath that question somewhere..the question seems to assume that the person has an image they manage and that this image is received uniformly by every human person of male gender across the globe regardless of other particulars lol.. and you know that can't be so so whats the real question ? Must be concern with presented image or behaviour i guess but then I think it would be more effective to ask from the inside out rather than the outside in. IOW questions about your behaviour, how you present yourself in certain scenarios with men is surely going to give you a clearer answer you can use than "how do i appear to men generally ?"..just a suggestion..but if you know what you mean by the question i guess you'll have more of a handle on the answer..i just don't get the question. Looking back i can seethe logic in your first interpretation...you have an empty field where all possibilties are present (hex 2)..anything can become (hex 3) but maybethings don't actually get the chance to get off the ground...maybe you need more friends around (3.1) to carry you in social situations rather than expect great intimacy at once (3.5)

 

[deekristen]

Trojan, Thank you very much for your answer, i think this tells me a lot more. Thats almost what i thought of the answer but it is really hard for me to put it into words like that.
Thanks for the help again...