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Hi guys. Please help. I thought I should break apart with my for a little while because he is good, and I am corrupt, consequently embarrassed. I thought I'll break apart for a while and then when I am better, get together. For council on this idea, I consulted , and got hexagram 3, lines 2 and 6, to 61. I got it twice, once a couple months ago, and now again. I thought i was being a little noble , this kind of idea, but the oracle does not seem to reflect this. I feel it reflects that this kind of attitude is . dead end That thinking like this, line 2, gets no fruit, and line 6, an endless bloody stalemate. That's what I am getting, if you have any different ideas, would :bows: to read them. thank you very much.
Hi Hollis,
Yes, you are a wicked woman - corrupt, bad and vewy, vewy naughty.
"he is good and I am corrupt" its hard to understand what you mean by that, seeing it this way could be the problem. How you mean this seems central to how one sees the answer to me.
If you have been looking to him for help the line 2 suggests it is a good idea not to take it from him even if this makes you unhappy, line 6 and this decision seems to come from a sincere place, 61...
Hi Hollis,
Of course, the IC won't reflect your ideas of "Nobleness" and martyrdom if they are based on erroneous associations.
try to address the core issue. Above all, don't run a "program" of "I'm not worthy" and "I'm not good enough" but be patient and see it through.
This could underscore the idea that you are heavily invested in the idea of success or failure. If you fail it's the end of the world. If you succeed then you're not worth it...
wait a minute.
breaking up is noble. a test/ a purification -line2
forcing one's self to see the the real need for another and separation as hell, to feel that for one moment in your bones- but not to persist in it -line6
then a real union can be forged based on inner truth -61
its difficult to begin anything real and lasting.
corrupt is to avoid the pain, corrupt is to avoid the purification
when one wants to achieve an enduring relationship one shouldn't try to achieve it by comfortable half measures
yes, what i meant, is that, he is always alert and bright and kind, and i have struggles. doubts anger fear suspicions etc.
guess it would make me unhappy to not take help from him. thank you trojan. but what decision comes from a sincere place, to break apart? so you would say, in the context of the question at face value, that indeed, it is a sincere thought? or perhaps, that there is validity to it? thank you
feel lucky you came by to post on this one, bitter as it is.
That sounds very familiar to me, I've been there too. Ever entertained the possibility that he is able to alert ,bright and kind because you are are doubtful, angry and suspicious.
Well yes I think it seems sincere. This dynamic of you feeling all darkness and anger while he is the angel gabriel isn't good for you and I really do recognise it as a pretty familiar insiduous relationship pattern. Not that its his fault, or yours, more like something thats cropped up between you. If he is acting as your helper or the healthy one in the relationship, that feeds him immensely but isn't good for you.
In this case I can see why you get line 2. This help you think he gives you you may be better off without for now - this doesn't mean totally ending it of course.
I am concerned that I cant, for some reason, be happy in a relationship. Is this the result of selfishness that has set in from being wounded in the past? Could be.
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I think its perfectly okay not to be able to be in a relationship especially if you are trying to forge a better relationship with the self. I think its essential to be alone sometimes, really crucial, so its not selfishness as a negative thing but perhaps just the self asking to know itself first, better than it knows others. I think the self can yearn and hunger for its self as much as it can for another, but we are encouraged strongly never to give it any time. Infact its almost like its considered a dangerous act, to be happy alone, to prioritise your knowledge of self above others. I think if one has difficulty keeping a realtionship its because one is hungering for a good relationship with the self.
Love yourself first Hollis - repeat after me "I am not corrupt" BTW you didnt paint him in a bad light at all I was only speculating about what may be happening - just energy dynamics between people like Topal said .
repeat after me "I am not corrupt"
Stay positive and all will come good in the end.
Love and Hugs
mike
Hollis, hexagram 3, methinks, screams for you to see it through. Esp line 2 and 6. MOst especially 6.
from the sounds of it, you have a relationship in which your partner is providing a clear pool in which to see the things in yourself that are holding you back from what you want....presumably the love relationship.
Sure, we are all selfish and wounded. That is no reason not to go deeper. Because ultimately, one is never really selfish, but self-ish....now you are fully arrayed to go forward and meet this darkness of little self and find the larger you, the beloved you, the most precious being. Leaving him behind leaves you right where you are, crying tears of blood.
The journey is within and the goal is JOY. Laughter is a river that takes you there....and he has a sense of humor. what more could you need. Ride on his river. Take the reigns of the horse and plunge forward into those doubts, suspicions and fears. Hexagram 6 asks " and what would you be waiting for?"
trojan;59929I said:think its perfectly okay not to be able to be in a relationship especially if you are trying to forge a better relationship with the self. I think its essential to be alone sometimes, really crucial, so its not selfishness as a negative thing but perhaps just the self asking to know itself first, better than it knows others. I think the self can yearn and hunger for its self as much as it can for another, but we are encouraged strongly never to give it any time. Infact its almost like its considered a dangerous act, to be happy alone, to prioritise your knowledge of self above others. I think if one has difficulty keeping a realtionship its because one is hungering for a good relationship with the self.
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