31.2.4 changing to 48

[beth]

Hello there,

Will you please help me with this reading?

I asked "which is the reason why he does not show interest in interacting with me" and received 31.2.4 changing to 48.

In spite the good times we spend when we are together, and that our relationship seems to be growing in intensity, he does not seem to be actively looking for more opportunities to be with me, but just take them as they come.

I made one more question: what's the most adequate attitude towards this situation. I received 16.1.2, changing to 54.

Oh... well... thanks for any clarity you can provide.

Beth

 

[gene]

Beth

I suspect that he is happy with the status quo of the relationship and has no need for anything else. It may be everything he wants. You want him to take more initiative? If so, why? What would that really mean to you? Perhaps you have a mental or emotional idea of how a relationship should work? Does everyone else feel the same way about relationships? Probably not. Accept the relationship the way it is. Be happy with the times together.

If it is TOO disconcerting, ask him.

Gene

 

[willowfox]

I asked "which is the reason why he does not show interest in interacting with me" 31.2.4 > 48.

First off, it suggests that he is not ready to approach you on a more intimate level yet, maybe he feels that it isn't the right moment, or maybe he's a little shy or whatever.

So, be patient and calm as he isn't going to disappear, when the time is right then you will see.

 

[beth]

Thank you Gene. Those are good questions. And if there is something I can say about this relationship is that don't have formed any idea about what is it or where is going, which is very good for me. Each individual is a world, I know. Perhaps his is not aware at all that I feel a bit neglected. And I know it is something I would like to resolve within myself. I asked to the I Ching to see if I could find some clarity that would help me to move forward somehow...

Thank you Willowfox. Your response gave me relief... It resonates with what I read about those changing lines on the book I have. Now I am calm... whatever is... all in good time! Thanks!

 

[Magnus]

I received the 31.2.4 > 48 reading just today, as well. I asked What the effects of keeping quiet about worries for so and so in regard to the roughness of a sport they play. The feeling I'm getting is that it might mean in my situation that the time is not right to do anything besides keeping quiet and/or waiting. The time will come when changes will happen and better things will come to fruition but to dive right in and try to force any changes might not be the most appropriate move at all.