32 two times and 17.5

[luciliuz]

Hi all, and thanks for your help!

The situation is: a man I've been in a relationship with in the past is reapproching me,
after a long pause during which I've been developing a good and healthy distance, friendly as weel.
He's married, the relationship was painful for me, so the actual condition between us is the best thing that could happen in the last year.
Said that, he's reapproching me and I'm eventually flattered but more than all scared,
He had power over me, he was very dominant, he's probably trying to have this power back,
and I'm afraid I'll not be able, despite the new conditions between us, to protect me, to keep things like they are now.

I had 3 readings, the firstone asking generally about what's going on:
32.1.3.4 > 19
the secondone about this feeling of fear I have, asking what should I do with him:
17.5>51
and a lastone, to clarify the entire situation:
32.3.5>47



2 times 32 makes me think there's something very strong the Yi is saying to me,
maybe that I should endure my indipendence, the disentanglement I've developed from him,
in order not to come back to the old times.

Then the 17.5 is apparently describing this moment of fear(51 as background) and suggesting to follow the good, staying in my path, because I can do that.

I will be grateful for any insight,
thanks!

 

[luciliuz]

I've just discovered I got 32 again last october, the only time I've been here in this forum asking about the same man.

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?19378-32-2-5-relationship

that was the time I was still understanding the change and the distance he put between us, distance that as I said made me to feel really better in the end.

I don't know, maybe the sense today is 'endure this distance'.
thanks anyway for your suggestions, if any

 

[mirian]

luci,

What my experience tells me is that even though hex 32 usually represents conditions that should last when it comes to relationships it hardly ever delivers. Throughout the changing lines what you actually get is failed attempts to sustain a long term relationship. Personally, I had very similar 32 readings in the past, with the lines that you have just had, and I am sorry to say that you shouldn't even bother to pursue anything with this man.

what's going on:
32.1.3.4 > 19

Misplaced expectations, wishful thinking, losing control of yourself, all leading to nothing.

asking what should I do with him:
17.5>51

Regain control of your own life and direction, follow the good and positive aspects of yourself and your life, trust yourself and your instincts.

clarify the entire situation:
32.3.5>47

Accepting conditions that are not fair to you can only lead to humiliation, and this man is not ready for commitment in terms of a relationship with you.

So, again, I am sorry to say that, but your reading is clearly indicating that at the moment pursuing this will only lead to heartache and waste of time.:bows:

 

[luciliuz]

Thanks Mirian,
your reading is very clear and my fears come from the fact that I know the danger behind the situation.
I'm happy at least to be able now to recognize it before losing control of myself, like I did in the past..
many thanks again,
Luci

 

[mirian]

Good luck luci. Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so keep your eyes open. :bows: