35.2>64 regarding his intention

[Nala56]

Hello again!

I am in a long distance relationship with a guy and after my last post having hex 32 unchanging(asking if I should wait for his proposal!), this time I asked iching what is his real intention in this relationship and about me? And I got hex 35 changing to 64.

Could you help me interpret it?

Thank you in advance

 

[Nala56]

Could anyone help me with this please?

 

[Trojina]

You were already answered here http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?20102-Hex-32-unchanging-waiting-for-marriage!

Seems to me the only way for you to know his intention is for him to tell you what it is. Why isn't he telling you ?

Tip Don't rely on answers from the I Ching to take the place of actual communication with the person concerned. It is very easy to start to build up ideas of what the other is intending and lead oneself astray.

35.2 Do you think you could benefit by talking this over with your grandma or a female relative who cares about you ? If you have none perhaps you could think of what advice close relatives that have passed over might have given you. It's just if he isn't forthcoming with his intentions to you it does not bode well therefore you need more guidance at this time from an older female who cares about you.

 

[Nala56]

Thank you Trojina

But I can't discuss this with anyone, that's why I put it here.

Could you tell me about the meaning of 35.2 and 64? What do they say? What does easy progress and before completion mean?

Does it mean we are before something happening? Or he is about to do something? What would that thing be? I am a llittle confused to interpret the meaning

So what should I assume?

Thank you again

 

[Nala56]

Seriously can somebody please tell me the original meaning of these two hexs?

 

[Trojina]

So what should I assume?

I don't think you can assume anything without speaking to him do you ?

 

[Trojina]

Could you tell me about the meaning of 35.2 and 64? What do they say? What does easy progress and before completion mean ?

BTW If you read the text you'll see why I suggested you connect with what your grandmother/mother/aunt/mentor might have advised you. That wasn't random advice it was connected with 35.2. I took it quite literally but it doesn't have to be taken literally.

Is he not in touch with you ?

 

[ginnie]

Dear Nala56,
Hex 64 as the relating hexagram means you are trying to sort everything out and put your ideas in order.

Hex 35 with the second line moving is just as Trojina said. It speaks of receiving blessings from your "grandmother," and that can mean any woman who is wise and who cares for you.

 

[Nala56]

Thanks Trojina
Yea he is in touch with me but it has been a very long time with no serious action.

Thank you so much ginnie
Biut since I asked iching to show me his intension, does it mean he is about to sort things out or kaking his mind? And about 35.2, I know he cares about his mom so much so could that be him discussing with his mom?

 

[Nala56]

So could that be from his side? Show his thoughts? His call?

 

[Nala56]

Any help?

 

[ginnie]

You are experiencing the confusion that comes about when we ask what other people are thinking. Who is the I Ching talking about? We don't know, because the I Ching doesn't usually answer in terms of what other people are thinking. Sometimes it can, though, and that is where the uncertainty comes from. For more information on how to ask personal questions, please see Hilary's Sticky Post at the beginning of Shared Readings.