38.4.5 > 61 Pregnancy

[Mayorka]

I desire deeply to be a mother.. I am not so far from the 40 years of my life and the need of having my own child is getting much stronger.
So I asked Iching to let me know if sees me a mother in my future:

38.4.5 > 61
I see a very auspicious answer here.
When I meet a like-minded man who wants to share with me his sincere desire to be a father, we should put all of the effort and then the pregnancy happens (61).

Do you also see an auspicious reading here?

 

[redoleander]

It seems like it might a good idea to spend some time studying hexagram 38 and what you can learn from it. It seems like you’ve received it a few times for related questions. Maybe 38.4 means that you will need to be selective and only give time to those who really share your values and want the same thing that you do. It might also mean that you are needing support and the main thing to look for is someone who is supportive. The thing about 38.4 is I don’t know if it’s a long term union. Maybe it is about prioritizing meeting someone who can be part me you having a child over this person also being a great love? There are numerous ways to have a child, not everyone is in a romantic relationship with their co-parent for example. It’s obviously also possible that this could be a person with whom you’re really well-matched all around. I must wonder about 38 > 61. It looks as though there’s some kind of challenge that must be met and that inside you will know what that is. I wonder if rather than looking for auspiciousness you might benefit from looking for messages around what will or won’t make it possible since your own actions will play a large role.

I do think it could be promising especially if you look at the hidden line 41.5. 38.4 is about meeting the right person, not just any person, so perhaps there’s something there to think about. What factors might be important.

 

[marybluesky]

I think 61 points to your inner desire. If you want a child, you should stick to it.

38.4 and 38.6 say you find someone willing to have a child, get together and have it. As the main purpose is being a mother, you should prioritize it and put other things, for example romantic fantasies, in second place.