38>51

[oceangirl]

After many years of being in unstable situations many times over -

Please show me the way to find the stability I crave

Hex 38.2.6>51

I'm seeing 51 as the present and past shake ups I've had and 38 as me feeling Estranged by the one I thought and who said he would help support me....
Lines 2 and 6 seem to say I will get some help from a very unexpected source.

 

[diamanda]

Please show me the way to find the stability I crave
38.2.6 > 51

I see this in a totally different manner, but anyway here goes, in case it helps.

This reading shows you precisely what is leading you to "unstable situations"
(shocks - and I know you've had more than your fair share).

What is leading to shock is:
38 - estrangement from people, and two changes, striving to overcome the estrangement.
38.2 - an informal ("indirectly and not in public") meeting with the estranged person. Playing it cool, not making a fuss. Tuck Chang says that although the alienation is not created by line 2, line 2 is the one who tries to eliminate it. Sort of rings a bell :-/ Line 2 is "not at fault".
38.6 - line 6 is "worried and nervous, as well as vigilant". It's a lonely line, and also the line which is designated to end alienation, even though this seems impossible. Please note here that the line which line 6 should be "mating with" is line 3. NOT line 2. In your cast, line 6 is putting all its efforts into the wrong person. You probably have a very bad opinion of whoever is "line 3" in this reading, and you're not even bothering to go towards that direction.

Hidden line is 21.6, someone who truly doesn't get it - no matter how much they're punished, they still persist. I can't really tell if this is you, or The Deaf Unruly Ones, or both, or someone else.

Overall I'd say your efforts to eliminate alienation are targeted towards the wrong people.
Leading to shock.
So in order to achieve the stability you crave, either:
a) accept to live with everyone's different characters (38), or b) target different people (line 38.3)
(or both the above!).

 

[oceangirl]

Please show me the way to find the stability I crave
38.2.6 > 51

I see this in a totally different manner, but anyway here goes, in case it helps.

This reading shows you precisely what is leading you to "unstable situations"
(shocks - and I know you've had more than your fair share).

What is leading to shock is:
38 - estrangement from people, and two changes, striving to overcome the estrangement.
38.2 - an informal ("indirectly and not in public") meeting with the estranged person. Playing it cool, not making a fuss. Tuck Chang says that although the alienation is not created by line 2, line 2 is the one who tries to eliminate it. Sort of rings a bell :-/ Line 2 is "not at fault".
38.6 - line 6 is "worried and nervous, as well as vigilant". It's a lonely line, and also the line which is designated to end alienation, even though this seems impossible. Please note here that the line which line 6 should be "mating with" is line 3. NOT line 2. In your cast, line 6 is putting all its efforts into the wrong person. You probably have a very bad opinion of whoever is "line 3" in this reading, and you're not even bothering to go towards that direction.

Hidden line is 21.6, someone who truly doesn't get it - no matter how much they're punished, they still persist. I can't really tell if this is you, or The Deaf Unruly Ones, or both, or someone else.

Overall I'd say your efforts to eliminate alienation are targeted towards the wrong people.
Leading to shock.
So in order to achieve the stability you crave, either:
a) accept to live with everyone's different characters (38), or b) target different people (line 38.3)
(or both the above!).

Thanks diamanda it does help and makes a lot of sense.

 

[rosada]

Just adding m2c -
38.2 sounds like trusting someone and 35.6 sounds like someone who is a bit paranoid. So together perhaps you are being advised that you have faith but maybe you don't completely trust it. Like you trusted God and look what happened! And now you are afraid to trust, like a soldier with post traumatic stress.
Hexagram 51 talks about staying calm in the middle of repeated shocks.
So I think you are being advised that in order to achieve the stability you crave you have to calm that stressed out nervous system and do whatever helps you do that.
IOW, the stability doesn't come from having your world stable, but from being able to stay calm when the world appears unstable. To be the calm in the eye of the storm.
So rather than looking for the right job, or apartment, or friend, maybe you should be looking for the right meditation technique, or something that tackles your situation from the prospective of strengthening your inner self rather than focusing on the outer.

I get results with burning candles. Light a white one with a prayer for inner peace. You should see results within a week, maybe within an hour!

 

[oceangirl]

Thanks Rosada I had another small Shake Up again late yesterday and regardless of this reading came to the exact same conclusion - I need to become calm in the eye of this storm through gentle techniques such as meditation and creating a harmonious space around me through candles etc.
And you're right, I do have faith that there's a univetrsal process going on here but I'm very wary of trusting offers of potential jobs and I'm now boarding with a person who's a heavy pot smoker who has extreme personality changes from one minute to the next so the element of trust that's she's going to be amicable next time we interact just can't be there.

 

[oceangirl]

I'm not sure is this outcome is relevant to the reading - I used Qigong, meditation and acupuncture to try and alleviate some of my anxiety and yesterday I talked things out with a counsellor of sorts. Last night I was reprimanded by my landlady about something ridiculous and realised right now I'm just not going to find any of the things I believe will give me stability without some sort of bs happening so have decided to do what I love best and travel towards friends and familiar places and see what chooses me before my money runs out