42.1.3>53

[goddessliss]

Hi all,

about 12 months ago I reunited with a friend after not having much to do with her for about 15 years. We had a fall out back then.

Things haven't quite worked out and we have had a number of angsty moments as we have tried to renew this friendship. Personally I find it way too much work and at the moment she hasn't responded to my last communication of about 2 weeks ago.

What is the problem btw J and i? Hex 42.1.3>53

To me it doesn't really look like it's describing any problem just that things will improve but personally I don't whether I can be bothered sorting things out.

How can I progress the relationship - 59.1>61

Line 1 - rescue with strength...hmmm like I said not that bothered really.

thks for your interpretations

Liss

 

[angelatlantis14]

Hi Liss,

that is an interesting question - what to do when the reading you get does not seem to fit your question at all ?
I agree with you that the reading seems strange, given what you described about your friendship and question.

One thing I can think of - the two of you may bring out the worst in each other, and each your apprehensions about the past may multiply the same thing in the other ("thunder and wind increase and strenghten each other")
It may be a chance for personal growth (Thus the superior man: If he sees good, he imitates it;If he has faults, he rids himself of them.) Don't get me wrong - I am not saying you have faults to get rid of But the whole setup may point to a situation where each of you is a mirror for the other and see in each other things that annoy you in yourself? With myself I have noticed multiple times that people that irritate me often have something I dislike about me....
That would to some extent fit into line 3 ("One is enriched through unfortunate events.
No blame, if you are sincere")
In this case the changing Hex 53 would probably be about your personal development that may arise from analysing and learning from this friendship.
That's really only an idea - I hope someone with more experience will weigh in and give a more informed answer!

best wishes

maui

 

[goddessliss]

Thanks maui (again) - I'm all for personal growth and think its' a lot of why we're here but I'm not sure there has been anything to gain on that level or any other with this friendship. The only thing it really did was upset me a lot as she can be quite derogatory towards me at times and realise she is not much of a friend at all whereas once I almost idolised her. Still I find that interesting in itself - Liss

 

[angelatlantis14]

Hi Liss,

well maybe this is what it is - in the past, you saw her as superior, but now, from a different and progressed viewpoint you have realized that this dynamic was wrong and in fact she is not superior at all. So a situation that was not correctly adressed in the past, can now be succesfully put to right -you see she is not that perfect and you have no reason to see her as better than you. If you feel that the friendship is worth having under these circumstances is something for you to decide
So the increase and gradual development could be in your self-confidence and independence very loose interpretation...

best wishes

maui

maui

 

[goddessliss]

This friendship is on the improve - Liss

 

[goddessliss]

But by the end of 2013 things got worse and worse and we had another fall out - when I looked back over it, in hindsight it was essentially the same problems we had in our childhood friendship and maui is right we did bring out the worst in each other.