42.3 .6 to 63 does my husband want to be with me

[pooja123]

that is right Trojina. i really truly believe destiny is in our hands. The I-ching shows us what path we are on currently. if it leads to destruction, we can change it using what i-ching prescribed. I am truly blessed having able to use bazi, iching and feng shui in my life. Sometimes i use tarot as well for advice. If her marriage could be saved , why not. it is so heart breaking to see couples break up without exhausting every sources available to patch things up. nowadays it is sooo easy to just divorce, thinking that life after divorce is easier. I hope lettuce you and your hubby work it out.

 

[Lettuce]

I’m with you Pooja and my mantra for life has always been never divorce, especially in modern times when it is so easy to do so. But alternatively, one must not be fanatical and if it is for the benefit of all sometimes (only sometimes) it can be for the best. In an ideal world we should all understand what true spiritual love is but we cannot force this upon people. We can take the camel to the water but we cannot make it drink. If one person in the marriage can’t open their heart to that, what to do. I am not necessarily relating this to my marriage but thus is the reason why so many don’t work. Let’s hope mine does ( if it the best for all concerned) x

 

[Lettuce]

Pooja, I really appreciate all your time to help me through this difficult time. You have been incredibly helpful in decifering the wise advice from the iching that could do some benefit to my marriage. I really am grateful

 

[Lettuce]

I would like to say thank you so much to everyone who has helped me. It really made me see things from a new perspective and what I maybe need to change in myself too. All your time and effort has been invaluable. I cast today what the future held for us and it was 64.4.5 to 59. Hex 64 is the chaotic state of my marriage and 59 is the problems dissolving reflected in lines 4 and 5. If any further light could be shed in this hexagram. You gave all already given me so much help maybe I now just need to focus on bei g positive, take one step at a time and try to work things out

 

[Lettuce]

I feel line 4 could be reflecting my husbands weakness to decadant extra marital affairs that’s he is fighting. Fighting his inner demons? Interestingly, it refers to three years. We are now in our third year since problems arose. In March it will be the r d of that three year period. Maybe then my husband would have conquered his demons and will be more committed to the relationship on a more enlightened level? Have I i terpreted it right? Or am I totally off

 

[pooja123]

line 4 shows that to persist is auspicious and regret (the fidelity or the other woman) is gone if the line doesnt change or activated.line 5 to persist is auspicious , regret will be gone, the man commits and build relationship if the line is not activated.both lines are activated leading to separation hex 59.

at the time of the reading. you are at line 3. unchanged. both of you still at standstill. you need to get to line 6. when line 3 and line 6 is moving and active , you will be in the Cauldron hex 50 where it changes to 32 everlasting relationship.

hex 64 means unfinished business. Both of you need to talk. Line 3 asks you to be aggressive in going about the changes that YI previously prescribed. Dress sexily. cook him . food. welcome him. maybe even suggesting you give him the best sex he ever had. hahaha. Reignite the passion you two once had. Yi is clearly being pushy about your responsibility in saving this relationship. Sometimes I hate I-ching but then again the seeker is you. You cast the hex, so I guess that is why Yi speaks to you that way.

line 6 is where your husband is, indulging in alcohol losing his head. losing trust and sincerity. It looks like he wants joy. Wants things to end on a happy note but hasn't a clue that the trouble is far from over. He needs to buck up. He must know where are his restrictions. Clearly you guys have not talked about boundaries and restrictions. These things should be discussed. Maybe you have discussed but on the surface only.

So focus on line 3 and line 6. Yi gave you a clue there. you are at line 3 and your hubby, haha at line 6 ready to celebrate. You are supposed to be at line 6 too, celebrating. but line 6 suggests, it is still in the process of fixing the relationship and why the celebration?.

 

[pooja123]

You know men are dogs. We need to train them. Give them restrictions. other wise he will be on the loose.

 

[rosada]

I have to object to the comment, "You know men are dogs." Not fair to men and probably not fair to dogs either!

Rosada

 

[pooja123]

okay not all men are dogs. but it is jut a saying. lol

 

[Lettuce]

Men are like boys that need guidance. Dogs are loyal and very loving. They too need training. I love dogs and men. I don’t think she meant any malice

 

[pooja123]

i hope my insight helped

 

[Lettuce]

Pooja, it really did. I really appreciate your time. I’ll keep you posted to let you know how things pan out.

 

[Lettuce]

Just a quick question. You wrote, my husband wants joy. He wants to end things on a good note. Do you mean, he wants the relationship to end well or that he wants the conflict to end?

 

[pooja123]

how are things with you Lettuce?

 

[Lettuce]

Thanks for asking and sorry about the late reply. We are still struggling but there may be hope. I do not think my husband has a mistress but I feel he is weak to temptations. I asked will we work through our problems and I cast 53.2.3.5 to 4.It is full of positive and negative lines. Some days I feel positive and we’ll get through and other days it feels like we are back at square one. Am I flogging a dead donkey? I really appreciate your insight Pooja. I’d love your personal details Incase I want a one to one reading done