43 unchanging - where can i meet

[innertruth]

Where literally can i meet my love?

That's what i asked....

Does it say just go outside??

I don't have outside job at the moment, and even when had one - never met anyone single there..

 

[diamanda]

Interesting question and answer!

43 is a hexagram where the masculine overpowers the feminine = somewhere where mainly guys hang out
It mentions your hometown = start there then
It mentions a roar, and the king's courtyard = a stadium? a hall of justice..? the parliament? (lol)
In 43 there's a downpour of a lot of water = men's water polo, if we combine with the above.

I may sound like I'm half-joking, however sometimes answers come from the craziest ideas.
It all gives me the feeling it describes an event with a lot of energetic action, definitely male dominated.

I Ching apart, I've noticed time and time again that people usually meet their partners depending on where Jupiter is in their astrological chart (i.e. which house and which sign, and if it has any other planets there right next to it). Do you know where yours is?

 

[innertruth]

So interesting!!
I will think about images you have given.!!

At least energetically it seems a suresign of
a dynamic environment, nothing quiet!! )
Sounds like a sport event ..parliament was funny xD...yes but thats where mainly guys gather.))hm...

Yep i know mine! Jupiter in 2house, pisces..

Was very into astrology recently,wow...

 

[kincadefoster]

This isn't a comment on the hex, but..
I know alot of people these days seem to be looking for love, can never find it and when they do, it's an unsuitable partner..

I think the world around us has programmed us and made us so negative to the point we all have a confirmation bias that prevents us having the relationship we want. Deep down we don't really believe we are good enough and so unconsciously choose people who don't work out and it confirms our bias

 

[innertruth]

Agree so much. We attract like mirror our own expectations of ourselves. If we dont respect and love ourselves, we never meet these traits.
Yes yes yes..

However yesterday i was just desperately curious....wise men say dont seek love, it will find you...must be true...dont know...

 

[diamanda]

It's certainly great to strive to be our best selves, and know our own worth, and always be on our own side. However, that does not guarantee that we will 'attract' only appropriate partners. Even if we do happen to find strong love, it's never a guarantee of a long-term match.

It's very rare to meet an appropriate/matching partner, and even then lots of compromise is required (on issues, of course, which are negotiable/manageable). If we take a closer look at the long-termed coupled up people around us, compromise is the name of the game. Believing in some fairy-tale version of love and high compatibility can cause a lot of misery and loneliness.

Doing our best, keeping fingers crossed, and being ready to compromise - this is the recipe imo

Innertruth - I'm surprised to hear about your 2nd house pisces Jupiter. As you probably know, it's about worth/possessions/money, however they're flighty and related to more abstract notions, such as music, compassion, dreaminess. So if you usually meet guys in such abstract but worthy situations, your luck currently (43) is in a completely different environment - dynamic and energetic, decisive and assertive. Mind you, pisces is very difficult to interpret - it's so personal that only the person themselves can know how it usually manifests. My Jupiter is in 12th house (pisces-related) Leo - I always met partners, including my long-term current one, at bars (alcohol being a pisces element, and fun related Leo). One of my best friends has it in the 6th (chores) - it's uncanny: she met her husband at the supermarket!

 

[innertruth]

hm...thank you for grounding advice...yes...it's rather we have to be down to earth when choosing a real partner I guess...
thank you..

so it basically depends on my own vision of things...
it is always interesting how i'ts played out though...
my ex was a DJ...so into music...music freak...oh wait..you are talking about Places of meeting....!!

 

[radiofreewill]

"Where literally can I meet my love?"

43u ~ "Not only go where the boys are, but go where the boys pursue you."

This says that showing up in the right place can put the odds greatly in your favor...

You might find good insights into your natural proclivities and relationship dynamics by checking out "The Tao of Birth Days"?

I hope this helps!

 

[innertruth]

radiofreewill - Online dating website???

 

[radiofreewill]

Online dating? Definitely boy heavy...you'd have to sort them all out.

Also, if exercise sounds good to you, then an after-work session of stretching at a martial arts studio would have you standing out like a lotus on a pond, too.

Almost all outdoor activity clubs have more men than women ~ REI has been a matchmaker for many a couple.

So, my advice would be to supplement the online dating possibility with local social activity aligned with one of your natural passions ~ shop a great outfit for it ~ and see what happens?

Make it a fun project!

 

[innertruth]

Thanks...sounds like a plan...
Trekking union! Gym! Could be