44.6>28 Obsession

[querent]

Hi everyone,

I am a new member, not great at interpreting, therefore I appreciate any help for me. I have been obsessed with a man friend of mine for years, we are still friends, meet up once every few months. I am not sure if he had any feelings for me, I do not intend to make the first move, because I am shy, because I am afraid that whatever little friendship between us will be lost if I were to confess.

My question to the Yi had been the following:
What is the potential of a love relationship between the both of us.

I received the answer to be 44 line 6 changing to 28.

I read that as an impossibility. Do let me know what you think, thank you.

 

[ginnie]

When you two meet, it is a sexual thing. When you get together in the future you will not agree and will not get along. Any attempt you make to get closer to this man will be repulsed.

 

[meng]

I have been obsessed with...

I received the answer to be 44 line 6 changing to 28.

Do you see a connection there?

Someone in a state of obsession or some other unnatural imbalance, is likely to receive an answer from Yi which first clears their channels about that, before offering clear information about their direct question. 28, 44 and 44.6. are all matters which require correction, and then your obsession becomes no longer an obsession, but just doing what comes naturally.

 

[querent]

Hi again,

Thank you for the advice, we do have a 4-year-long friendship, 3 years for which we see each other almost everyday since we schooled and worked together initially. I wouldn't say that it is just sexual. I do not know how this thing between us will develop naturally - I don't know I always felt that somebody has to make the first move.

I did sense the advice that I need to move on, I supposed I am just embittered by it.

 

[meng]

..am just embittered by it.

No offense intended but this sentiment could reflect your 44-28 reading. There is more than destiny at work; there is a matter of attraction, and embitterment repels. So, I suggest first to lose the horns, stand happily alone, and then the bees will become interested in the flower. But this is the antithesis of that reading, so first the advice given in that reading must be correctly applied. You asked, what is the potential for this? So much of that question only you can determine. I perceive that Yi is addressing acquiring a mindset, an adjustment in how you see. Kind of a periodic third eye exam. Then you'll be able to see more clearly, and your thinking and feelings won't be clouded with bitterness.