47.2.3. to 31

[Petragg]

Hello,
again I turn to this wonderful community for help interpreting a reading.
I am getting to know this new guy, it's early days and I don't have any definitive ideas where I want this connection to go... just taking it slow! But theres something ind his behaviour that is a bit puzzling so I asked perhaps not the most intelligent question:

What are his intentions towards me?
47.2.3. to 31
Now, the lines are not the most auspicious, but I think they relate more to his current state of mind due to circumstances that have nothing to do with me, which nevertheless affect his attitude towards what is "growing" between us? In fact the picture i see is him actively confining this growing influence or attraction even? What do you think?

Previous casts I did regards him were:

Current state of connection with X?
10.1.2.5 to 35 - Slow careful progress ...

A picture of relationship potential with X?
12.5 to 35 - this gave me the idea that he is consciously blocking the organic growth of this connection but that he is going to "soften" with time?

Picture of X attitude towards me at present?
33 UC - Doh!

A bit pissed off I asked Why is he retreating from me? 62UC - does he want to go even slower? Or! Does he feel the need to keep our connection hidden?? That would make sense.
We do have friends in common and he just got out of a relationship so I asked:

What should my attitude be towards X?
15.2 to 46 - Modestly persevere, lol. I think Yi is telling me that there is value in this connection so as long as I give it time and am sincere, something will grow out of it, but what?

What is the outlook for an intimate relationship between X and I?
46UC - It's not a no but I may grow a beard in the mean time?

I am not in the hurry as I'm still primarily focusing on myself, sorting out my life and work on balancing the significant relationships that I already have in my life. But I would like a bit more of an idea of where this new connection is going?

Basically I'm interested in knowing if he is interested in me romantically or am I just imagining things??
Any insight or alternative view would be most welcome!

Thank you,
Petra

 

[rosada]

Reads to me as if to say he doesn't have any "intentions".
47.2 Seems to suggest he enjoys your company but...
47.3 "He doe not see his wife" - perhaps he does not see the potential for a deeper relationship?

 

[Petragg]

Reads to me as if to say he doesn't have any "intentions".
47.2 Seems to suggest he enjoys your company but...
47.3 "He doe not see his wife" - perhaps he does not see the potential for a deeper relationship?

Thank you @rosada for your view on the reading.

Maybe the there can be no potential to be seen right now anyway as we are currently living in different cities and with the corona lockdown I'm only able to travel for work about once a month to where he lives and see him. We are both avid cyclists and we have a common interest in design, architecture and politics & society... Plus neither of us are great remote communicators. Perhaps he thinks he would be better off connecting with somebody more accessible? Do you think these circumstances factor in the 47.3? That he doesn't see me in a more literal sense?

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[Petragg]

Thank you @rosada for your view on the reading.

Maybe the there can be no potential to be seen right now anyway as we are currently living in different cities and with the corona lockdown I'm only able to travel for work about once a month to where he lives and see him. We are both avid cyclists and we have a common interest in design, architecture and politics & society... Plus neither of us are great remote communicators. Perhaps he thinks he would be better off connecting with somebody more accessible? Do you think these circumstances factor in the 47.3? That he doesn't see me in a more literal sense?

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Also @rosada he recently broke up with someone. Could line 3 of 47 refer to her? Tat he is still under the influence of that relationship?

 

[rosada]

Both the lines speak of being confined so this could be a reference to your being in different cities and the lock down having a negative 31. Influence causing him to limit his intentions. I wouldn't have thought of 47.3 as referring to an ex but perhaps if it was almost like a marriage then perhaps the line is saying he doesn't see how he is still emotionally attached to her. Or maybe just so glad to be free of her that he doesn't want to feel attached to anyone at this time.
I think you should focus on the answer you got for what your attitude should be - 15.2, 46. Keep grounded, don't make a big deal out of things and let the friendship evolve.

 

[Petragg]

Or maybe just so glad to be free of her that he doesn't want to feel attached to anyone at this time.

Well this could also be said about me! Lol. No worries, I have every intention of following the 15>46 advice
Thank you @rosada for your input and confirmation! I see a much clearer picture of the situation.

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