Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
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Thanks guys, thanks so much.
Hm... you do have the point that he is whining about her a lot, that's true, I've never thought of that...
But it is the fact that she is selfish and egocentric. She knows that the children love me, and doesn't refrain from asking me to take care of them just so she could have some time off. I accept it because I like them and... that could be the prison I've been holding myself in. She's manipulating them, manipulating me just as well and I am running around in circles I don't know how to break free from.
He does make speeches, I'm not completely sure if everything he presents is for real or if he is also responsible for the complexity of the situation.
I do want to start feeling better but I don't know if I should confront him or just withdraw from the whole mess and leave things to themselves, so whatever happens happens...
I think the main thing is you recover from the sense of hopelessness you feel and maybe stop adapting to others needs, stand back and regain strength of spirit. 47 isn't a good time for talking from either of you i don't think and though i don't know the situation i can imagine theres this long term drama between them and you are now a player in it too - or rather their player. The advice in 47 is however bad the circumstances seem don't let it grind you down - follow your will. You have an agenda, an outcome you want, focus on that. Theres many changing lines in 47 so maybe this down time is on the brink of change and things coming together in place eventually (63) but here i think your actions will speak louder than words however you put that into practice.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).