5.1.4>28 what does she expect from me?

[nosferatu2685]

Hi everybody!
I have been hanging out with a girl that I like a lot for several months. Our relationship is quite ambiguos, because she repeats all the time that we are friends but her behaviour often contradicts this statement. She is very demanding and wants to be always the center of my attention.

So I asked the I Ching: what does she expect from me?

Answer: 5.1.4>28.

It's quite an hard time for me and I'm not clear minded at all, so I can't understand properly this answer.
Someone could help me, please? :bows:

 

[diamanda]

Hi nosferatu2685,

what does she expect from me?
5.1.4 > 28

The answer speaks of waiting somewhere far, at ease.
Then the one who waits is not at ease anymore, and waits in a very painful manner.
28 speaks of very unhappy feelings of great heaviness.

I think she's planning to keep you hanging on till you can't take it anymore.
She expects that at some point you'll be fed up with waiting and you'll make a drastic move.
I'm not sure exactly what that means, and not sure what kind of move she wants to see from you.
It all sounds somewhat sadistic to me.