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watersprite2
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Hey guys, I'm not new to this forum - I was previously watergoddess / watersprite... but haven't been on here for a few years so forgot all my log in details.
So, here's my situation. I met a guy recently online - (we're both separated with a kid and both have drama/baggage in our lives) we went for a coffee and were talking for a few hours. There was a lot of strong chemistry going on though I noticed he is quite insecure.
Anyway, shortly after - he arranged to meet with me again. The second date was amazing, we talked for about an hour and made out for another hour - it got quite heated. A shooting star fell in front of us! lmao
We were texting back and forth for a couple of days... he was really keen to see me again on Saturday...but I had to rush off to take care of my son - I made it clear that I am still interested and want to see him soon but his messages seemed less enthusiastic and he seems to have totally pulled back. Yes... yes... I know guys do this sometimes but in this case I genuinely don't get it.
I'm aware that I've only met this person a couple of times so he doesn't owe me anything... but it seems so rude and I'm disappointed.
I've been asking the i-ching several stupid questions like "will he contact me again".. getting mostly bad hexagrams - 29, 60, 16 etc.
The last question I asked was
"why did he cut me off?" and got 5.3.4.5 > 54
I take this to mean that he didn't like my compromised situation (54) and he was too impatient to wait... or was somehow offended that I made him wait?
Or does this talk of the waiting period I must go through now to hear from him?
So, here's my situation. I met a guy recently online - (we're both separated with a kid and both have drama/baggage in our lives) we went for a coffee and were talking for a few hours. There was a lot of strong chemistry going on though I noticed he is quite insecure.
Anyway, shortly after - he arranged to meet with me again. The second date was amazing, we talked for about an hour and made out for another hour - it got quite heated. A shooting star fell in front of us! lmao
We were texting back and forth for a couple of days... he was really keen to see me again on Saturday...but I had to rush off to take care of my son - I made it clear that I am still interested and want to see him soon but his messages seemed less enthusiastic and he seems to have totally pulled back. Yes... yes... I know guys do this sometimes but in this case I genuinely don't get it.
I'm aware that I've only met this person a couple of times so he doesn't owe me anything... but it seems so rude and I'm disappointed.
I've been asking the i-ching several stupid questions like "will he contact me again".. getting mostly bad hexagrams - 29, 60, 16 etc.
The last question I asked was
"why did he cut me off?" and got 5.3.4.5 > 54
I take this to mean that he didn't like my compromised situation (54) and he was too impatient to wait... or was somehow offended that I made him wait?
Or does this talk of the waiting period I must go through now to hear from him?