5 & @ unchanging

[steve]

Hi all

A friend of mine is working away and putting stress on his relationship and asked me to do a reading for him
He nearly split up with her this week to the point where she was going to move out
He is unsure of her feelings and thinks she may just be using him for a place for her kids and herself as its a pretty nice place and everthing is free i think her feeling could be genuine

So he asked does she wish they were together and recieved 5 un changing
I found that difficult to read and so he asked again for me and recieved 2 unchanging and that was even harder for me so unsually i got him to ask again and recieved 2 unchanging again

so there you go

any help would be good

Thanks

Steve

 

[getojack]

I'd say it means she's waiting for something to happen... being open and receptive to whatever might happen and not forcing the situation.

 

[steve]

Thank allot of your insight
How do you read 5 unchanging, i am not to good at reading unchanging hex's for some reason

 

[Tony_L]

So he asked does she wish they were together and recieved 5 un changing
I found that difficult to read and so he asked again for me and recieved 2 unchanging and that was even harder for me so unsually i got him to ask again and recieved 2 unchanging again

I always find it difficult to interpret a reading about someone else. Here he asks, "does she wish they were together?" This takes the locus of control away from your friend and puts it more in her court. In any case he got 5 unchanging. Then he got 2 unchanging twice. So maybe the Yi is telling him that to answer his questions he must:

Wait, and be receptive, be receptive (don't take the lead, allow yourself to be led).

5: 需 HSÜ / WAITING (NOURISHMENT)
"The rain will come in its own time. We cannot make it come; we have to wait for it. "

WAITING. If you are sincere,
You have light and success.
Perseverance brings good fortune.
It furthers one to cross the great water.

Wilhelm continues:
"One is faced with a danger that has to be overcome. Weakness and impatience can do nothing. Only a strong man can stand up to his fate, for his inner security enables him to endure to the end. This strength shows itself in uncompromising truthfulness [with himself]. It is only when we have the courage to face things exactly as they are, without any sort of self-deception or illusion, that a light will develop out of events, by which the path to success may be recognized. This recognition must be followed by resolute and persevering action."


2: THE RECEPTIVE brings about sublime success,
Furthering through the perseverance of a mare.
If the superior man undertakes something and tries to lead,
He goes astray;
But if he follows, he finds guidance.
It is favorable to find friends in the west and south,
To forego friends in the east and north.
Quiet perseverance brings good fortune.

"It is not his task to try to lead–that would only make him lose the way–but to let himself be led. If he knows how to meet fate with an attitude of acceptance, he is sure to find the right guidance. "

Take care,

Tony