51 to 21 love

[Peachykeen]

I asked about the future of my crush and his gf's relationship and got 51 to 21. What does it mean?

 

[radiofreewill]

Hi Peachykeen,

"What will happen with my future boyfriend and his current girlfriend?"
51.6 to 21 ~ He could be in for a Shock when he finds out the current girlfriend wants marriage, sooner rather than later.

Line 6 suggests that the reality of her intentions could be a Shock to him, ruining the relationship? However, you should remain neutral and not do anything to 'help' this along ~ it'll boomerang on you! That's the part that you'll have to Bite Through ~ resisting the urge to meddle.

This seems to be a wild one ~ I hope you'll keep us posted?

 

[Peachykeen]

Yes.. I'll keep you guys posted. He really loves her right now though . Wahhh! ��

 

[Peachykeen]

Yes.. I'll keep you guys posted. He really loves her right now though . Wahhh!

 

[Peachykeen]

Sorry my internet so bad I posted it twice... and I meant frownie face not happy face lol. This whole thing is long distance. Long distance between him and her. Even longer distance between me and him.

They plan to travel to each other a lot though once they are on break from work or school. I don't have to work. I am available it's just a super long flight. He's on the other side of the world from me . But I'm available to go I guess.. hm.. I don't know if it's a good idea to go though. I can buy a new boy with the price of that ticket and productivity loss from time loss hah. Lol

 

[Thinkclear]

I asked about the future of my crush and his gf's relationship and got 51 to 21. What does it mean?

Keeping your other question about this person in mind it seems to me that the Yi is addressing something else than your current question.
In LiSe's translation line 6 of hex. 51 says:

Many shocks are not really yours. Don’t try to mend them, even though they can be upsetting. They are valuable lessons. Connect with others and talk about it. Understanding and learning from it are better than fixing it.

In combination with hex.21 the Yi seems to say "Sorry, I know it is hard but al of this is none of your business, talk with others so you can get this person out of your system".

 

[Trojina]

I asked about the future of my crush and his gf's relationship and got 51 to 21. What does it mean?

well what do you think it means ? Is it me or is there a growing trend right now for people posting queries without actually saying what the change lines are ? I think a problem with using the online tool is people post and sometimes don't even know what change lines are. Hopefully you do.

Whether new or not you can't truly start to understand readings unless you have you own ideas about the meaning whatever they are. It's your reading so whatever others say there will be things they can't see that you can.

https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...59-How-to-get-the-most-from-sharing-a-reading

From my point of view a reading isn't really as knowable unless the one who asks is present and engaged with the meaning for them.

All I see in this answer is it's probably not got a lot to do with you but then it wouldn't be because you haven't put yourself anywhere in the question. To get answers you can really apply put yourself in the question it's better than making wild guesses about what other people are doing.

Another link which can help with formulating effective relationship questions

https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...42-Blog-post-Advice-for-relationship-readings

 

[Peachykeen]

Thank you so much Trojina!!!

Changing line is 6. Sorry.

Well, this question doesn't have to include me. I just wanted to know what would happen with his relationship. It says shocking thunder then biting through. The biting through's picture looks like a burning forest. When it says: the truth could not be silenced.. it makes me think of me. He is kind of cheating on her with me and that's the truth and it would not be silenced. I feel like the readings are telling me what I want.. but I'm just afraid it's my selective understanding. But where the reading talks about unfairness, I just don't know if it's talking about me or the girlfriend since I did ask about HIS relationship.

 

[Trojina]

Well, this question doesn't have to include me. I just wanted to know what would happen with his relationship.

Well that's a matter of opinion. I think a question always needs you somewhere really because it's you at the root of the question. You need to know about the future of your crush and his girlfriend because ....? What you need to know is how you need to act/think/feel about it all etc

It says shocking thunder then biting through. The biting through's picture looks like a burning forest. When it says: the truth could not be silenced.. it makes me think of me. He is kind of cheating on her with me and that's the truth and it would not be silenced. I feel like the readings are telling me what I want.. but I'm just afraid it's my selective understanding. But where the reading talks about unfairness, I just don't know if it's talking about me or the girlfriend since I did ask about HIS relationship.

Going back to what you said here

This whole thing is long distance. Long distance between him and her. Even longer distance between me and him.

...it makes me wonder if 51.6 is highlighting that. In general long distance relationships don't really stand such a good a chance as nearer ones anyway especially if you rarely meet up.

I don't see unfairness as very central to the reading, I guess you are thinking of 21 as the relating. I just see it as more as like a crunch point in the relationship, a time of decision. Looking at the translation from Hilary it does all sound very literal though doesn't it

‘Shock twists and turns,
Watching in fear and terror,
Setting out to bring order: pitfall.
The shock does not reach your self,
It reaches your neighbour.
No mistake.
There are words of marital alliance.’

I can see where radiofreewill is coming from with his interpretation. It looks like a story of what is happening. Drama, decisions, ultimatums and so on but it is far away from you and it's clear you should do nothing about it. Then the words of 'marital alliance' could be literal.

In general I have the feel there's a need for you to 'keep it simple', to not concern yourself with whatever dramas are playing out with those two and it does look like a bit of drama to me which you ought not to let trouble you. It's all a long way away and you have more important things to attend to in your life, at least things that are more present to you now.

 

[rosada]

I see hexagram 51.6 - hexagram 21 as saying what ever obstacles they encounter they will see as being outside of them and be able to 21. Bite Through them and thus strengthen their 51.6 Marital alliance.