52.1.5.6 to 63 - Yes, a relationship question

[scarlettgirl]

Briefly, my boyfriend and I had a spat today over something he said that I thought was mean and hurtful. He reacts with the typical 'you're just being sensitive'. The conversation ended badly and now I am just confused and still quite angry with him about what happened. I wanted to be very cautious in how I handle the expected aftermath of this as this is our first big argument. I consulted the iching and asked - what should I do about K? It gave me hex 52 with lines 1, 5, and 6 changing into hex 63. I felt immediately that this was telling me to do nothing, don't bring up the matter with him again and wait for him to call me before I decide anything. I feel that hex 63 means that this whole issue will blow over between us, or is already a nonissue with him. I would like to see if anyone would glance over my reading quickly and give their thoughts. Thanks so much.

 

[rodaki]

hi scarlettgirl . .

my thoughts on this is that you were right to feel hurt . . what you need to do is stand on your position but do it calmly (sounds like you don't wanna fight), say few but well thought out words and don't badge in setting things straight . .

 

[Trojina]

Briefly, my boyfriend and I had a spat today over something he said that I thought was mean and hurtful. He reacts with the typical 'you're just being sensitive'. The conversation ended badly and now I am just confused and still quite angry with him about what happened. I wanted to be very cautious in how I handle the expected aftermath of this as this is our first big argument. I consulted the iching and asked - what should I do about K? It gave me hex 52 with lines 1, 5, and 6 changing into hex 63. I felt immediately that this was telling me to do nothing, don't bring up the matter with him again and wait for him to call me before I decide anything. I feel that hex 63 means that this whole issue will blow over between us, or is already a nonissue with him. I would like to see if anyone would glance over my reading quickly and give their thoughts. Thanks so much.

Yup don't do anything, wait till you are calmer then you'll find what you want to say will be clear and ordered (52.5) Probably good to be sparing of words right now and to focus on calming/stilling your self...as if your boyfriend was not there. Like you I have the feeling this will simply blow over

 

[scarlettgirl]

I just wanted to give some feedback on the question I asked this morning. I followed the yi's advice and remained calm, resisting the urge many times to call my boyfriend to 'discuss' this issue which would have made it worse, I believe. The advice worked perfectly. My boyfriend called me before I left work, apologizing profusely without my prompting him. I know it seems like such a small issue but I am one of those who over react, maybe not the screaming, dramatic type but I still over react. The advice was the best I could have gotten given my mental state at the time. Thanks again, Rodaki and Trojan for your replies.