54 <2,3,5> 49

[nAstWr]

I know I have asked a lot of times about my future love life. My last casts and the interpretations of diamanda make me worried. I don' wanna stay alone. I want to have my own family. And I am ready to act so as to have them. But I don't like the answer I have received tonight. I am so upset.
'Yi tell me please, will my loneliness end?'

Hexagram 54, changing lines 2,3,5 to hexagram 49
One more shock... no no triangle relationship

Line 2 Here the girl is left behind in loneliness... my loneliness
Line 3 A second woman or me as a concubine?
Line 5 a marriage but there is a concubine.

Hexagram 49: I have read about it as 2 woman in conflict (diamanda's interpretation)

My questions so as to clarify this cast is who am I??? The concubine or the wife??? And who does finally the guy choose

 

[nAstWr]

I would be really really grateful if you could help me solve this riddle.

 

[butterfly spider]

Hello
Firstly you are neither the concubine or the wife. You are yourself. My interpretation is that until you consider yourself in your own right the person who you ask about can have whoever they want - it is of no consequence.

I have had this casting when my question had absolutely no relevance - as in the end it was more to do with my own choice rather than the opinions or desires of someone else.

I know how you feel. However we have a choice in how we deal with such issues. We are not victims of someone else's desires here.

This is how I see this casting - but of course I am clueless about your own circumstances. But just consider your own worth in this