54.2.6 >21 64.4.5.6>29

[Florencia1]

I start by clarifying that I am using the translator because my language is Spanish.
I met a guy in a professional context, there was flirting but indecision, when we finally got it out there we kissed but he told me he was meeting someone. I found out months later that the person he was meeting became his girlfriend. I completely distanced myself, we only kept in touch for strictly professional reasons and we didn't talk about it again or see each other again after the kiss episode (I'm going to have to see him alone again in a couple of months)
A couple of months passed and he appeared to ask me for help with a personal matter (a cat to give up for adoption because I am dedicated to rescuing cats).
I took it as a rapprochement but I didn't give it much more importance, although we're still in touch about it.
I want to make it clear that I never stopped thinking about that kiss and that there was something pending between us but I would never do anything while he was in a relationship.
I have my doubts about whether her boyfriend relationship continues and I have no way of knowing.
I asked the iching
Am I going to stop being the second in this situation?
The answer 54.2.6>21
First I interpreted that I am still the second in this situation, that I am alone, that I cannot know much and that there is nothing substantial in all this. So I asked: what situation is our link going? Answer: 64.4.5.6>29
Unfinished business, yes. But it looks promising for a new phase.
I wonder if that 54.6 in this case can mean that the second phase is ending (perhaps he broke up or that relationship is not prospering) and the 54.2 that he is going to be alone. I don't know, maybe it's my desire but the truth is that I am in a good moment of my life where I would like to meet someone and fall in love but I cannot let go of that situation with this person.
would appreciate comments
Regards
Flower

 

[rosada]

NO - You should assume your kiss was a hidden moment (54.2 Marrying maiden in the shadows) that doesn’t have a greater significance (54.6).
YES - You don’t know what is really going on with them (54.2) but it’s safe to assume their relationship is a sham (54.6).

 

[my_key]

Am I going to stop being the second in this situation?
The answer 54.2.6>21
First I interpreted that I am still the second in this situation, that I am alone, that I cannot know much and that there is nothing substantial in all this.

In this time you are standing with a blank page in front of you and you can beautify or embellish it's face in whatever way you choose. 21 encourages you to make the picture you draw reflect the best picture you can of how you hold your inner worth. 54 advocates that you avoid placing on the blank page anything - words, thoughts, feelings or behaviours - that disrupts or lessens the harmony of your world.

So I asked: what situation is our link going? Answer: 64.4.5.6>29
Unfinished business, yes. But it looks promising for a new phase.

The current link between you is cradled in old negative thoughts, behaviours and fears (29). Things are not yet in place fully however as the situation undergoes clearer consideration then new boundaries will be established. You'll know when the time is right to undertake an offering rather than remain sitting on a soggy tail (64).

... or it might mean something completely different to you.

Good Luck

 

[Florencia1]

NO - You should assume your kiss was a hidden moment (54.2 Marrying maiden in the shadows) that doesn’t have a greater significance (54.6).
YES - You don’t know what is really going on with them (54.2) but it’s safe to assume their relationship is a sham (54.6).

Hello Rosa, thank you very much. I did not understand well. What you mean is that these are two possible readings of the same spread? Anyway, I think I can't do anything but move on. When I think about it objectively, it's just feeding a fantasy that has no basis in reality. So if it were like that, I think the yi answers me with the first option. thank you!

 

[Florencia1]

In this time you are standing with a blank page in front of you and you can beautify or embellish it's face in whatever way you choose. 21 encourages you to make the picture you draw reflect the best picture you can of how you hold your inner worth. 54 advocates that you avoid placing on the blank page anything - words, thoughts, feelings or behaviours - that disrupts or lessens the harmony of your world.

The current link between you is cradled in old negative thoughts, behaviours and fears (29). Things are not yet in place fully however as the situation undergoes clearer consideration then new boundaries will be established. You'll know when the time is right to undertake an offering rather than remain sitting on a soggy tail (64).

... or it might mean something completely different to you.

Good Luck

Thank you key, it means a a Lot to me