54.2 to 51

[parasio]

My ex contacted me to know where I am after has seen my status on whatsapp.
I didn't expected to hear from him because he stays with an other lady. So I asked: Why he contacted me?
54.2 to 51
Yes he cheated and left me, but what has this to do with his messages today?
Has someone any idea?

 

[Freedda]

There is nothing quite like another's interest in us to throw us off track, and make us stop seeing or remembering clearly - just whom this person was and how they treated us!

But instead, they pique our interest, and we respond as if we're now only looking with half our sight and half our senses. We say, hmmm, I wonder what they want, when we should be saying, get the hell away from me!

So, perhaps the better question is, not what they want, but what do you need? A little clarity I would guess, and you should strive to remember the shock and pain you felt. You need to think about getting past the old, and not inviting it back in. And that will be a start at making a new start.

D.

 

[parasio]

Thank you Freeda for your response.
It's a very difficult situation for me, because I was very fond of him. I'm struggling with a terrible jealousy. And can't see a new start, I see only a loss.

 

[diamanda]

And from another point of view,
Why he contacted me? 54.2 > 51
He knows you feel lonely and hurt and he wants to shock you. Sounds like a lovely character...

 

[marybluesky]

Hello Parasio!

Why he contacted me? 54.2 to 51
54 is called Marrying Maiden which refers to a situation where one isn't in a place of authority. The hexagram is also described as Unilateral Action, Improper Advances.
54.2: "The blind are able to see; beneficial for a dark man to determine." He contacted you as something lacks in his life that leaves him unfulfilled, however his contact is more of a Shock, a surprise. Don't expect much of it.

Good Luck!