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Hi Springflower, (I thought I already posted here, but somehow my post got derailed...)
I add to Mirian's reply, which I agree with, that by accepting a subordinate position (for now), your strength will be renewed so that you may move forward (hex 34). Hex 34 is energetic and effective. So that will be your result. By subordinate position, the position may be literal (subordinate in a relationship) or within your heart (relative to what you really want).
Question..
54.3 could mean another woman for him?
Springflower, you asked, "what will happen in my life this month" -- so no, the Yi would not be answering about your ex-fiance having another woman. It is answering about your own state of mind, and life situation, offering you advice based on how you are feeling and your struggles.
I am in a position that I don't deserve it.
I have lost myself entirely indeed. I don't recognize me. I have never been on this position before and it's the worst phase in my life.
This can't be any clearer for the foreseeable.
If I ching repeats the same answers it wants something to point out. 54,3/34 for 2 answers: What is going to happen in your life this month and if you have reconciliation with your ex. Indeed 54.3 is not the best for a woman. It doesn't seem a "normal" relationship but it seems to represents your present situation. The line refers to " using hair-growing" means patience. You have to be patient in order your hair to grow meaning advancement. "All things come to the one who can wait. Who craves for something will take the first-best for granted, who stays in his own dignity will get the one with dignity."
I feel that you choose the right path. Patience and dignity. I am not sure if 54.3 represents present. Maybe the line suggests an attempt for reunion which is unstable or premature.
I see hexagram 34 as a great potential for you. I am looking the images of both hexagrams 54 and 34:
54 - Thunder over the lake
34 - Thunder in heaven above
Thunder over the lake is no as powerful as Thunder in heaven. 34 makes me feel that you will manage to have the position you would like eventually.
Just follow the advice of 54.3 "All things come to the one who can wait. Who craves for something will take the first-best for granted, who stays in his own dignity will get the one with dignity." Don't force anything if you don't want to be a concubine. Be patient and let him to choose.
36,4,6/ 30 (55,6)
No hope, black hole, depression/ double light, double sun.
This is a really auspicious answer for me.
In my opinion, even if you feel so bad at the moment, there is a hope and believe me I don't like to give hopes if there aren't.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).