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Hello Clarity folks,Well this is my 2nd thread about a relationship I started with a younger man I met in India 15 months ago. We broke up in March during my last trip. But as far as my experience goes there never was a broke up like this in my life. We seem to be even closer now than before, I suppose because there's no more pressure...His family wants him to marry traditionally, he is attached to them but knows their ways won't work for him at least for now. I've been his lover and spiritual helper in a sort of uturn his life seems to take for the past year or so... I'm about to post my last readings about how things have sort of developed lately, we share messages and photos of our lifes every 2/3 days for the past 5 weeks, since Easter 21st April and since Scorpio Full Moon on May 19th it seems he is really showing signs of getting closer to me. It's not intimate words but more things he's doing and saying that are more thoughtful etc... I do not wish to go back to where we were, I mean to grow within any relationship, clearly it's not advisable to make the same mistakes twice hahahahahaha... And even though I'm able to make them more than 3 or 4 times in a row...I'm checking the Yi pretty much every day to help me get an insight into this situation which has so far brought me some helpful tips and hints into my personal way of 'being in love' and shown me many things I had not seen before in previous relationships.So here are my last readings with some comments (I'm new at Yi...) I use coins. -What do I need to understand about this new situation, his message? 19uc : Saturday he was really close... I was really surprised, like I was 'perceiving' some changes for a while and with the 19 hex it replied to this new 'perspective' within the relationship, Approach or Nearing depicts this to me, it's giving me a sort of approval I feel about how we can grow from this new situation, reaching out to him for a while now in a structured, constructive way, not invasive, nurturing and yet detached, he has reached out to me quite consistently for 10 days... Also, not wanting to invade (he's a volunteer in a spiritual community now and real busy) I asked:-How will I know when it's a good time to speak to him?Got 55uc...errrrr, right this one is really tricky, I've been trying not to let my emotions run the show when responding, so I let the 'engines' cool down for 4 days before answering and being casual but bright like in 55, loads of light and abundance. Though it can be overwhelming hence the emotions put on check...-What would be a new way to understand the whole situation and how to move fwd? 13.2.3.4>61Wow, real tricky. Because there are 2 questions in one, I interpreted the Yi as describing the past story with line 2 and 3 and the forward with line 4. With 61 as a sort of background to my mindset. Line 2 of Fellowship, well to me, he chose to remain in familiar circles (we not same culture etc) hence it was easier to break up with me. Line 3 Fellowship is blocked because there is no Innocence 25, there's fear and defensiveness from both of us during most of the relationship... Then Line 4, well some walls are erected and healthy boundaries with 37, Clan /Family can help union or reconciliation... And 61 is Inner truth so it feels familiar and deep like 'of course' this is right for me, I belong to this story, this reconciliation, this is part of me. Oh I have casted 3 more readings which I'm hoping to share if possible as I feel this is a huge thread. I'm looking for hints and how to read the Yi's answers to help me find myself within the Yi. Not to control the relationship or the situation but really to help me being able to 'read' the whole thing. Like for instance today I asked :-What would be a new way to grow with him? Got 26.6 > 11 which to start with I take as Control my power to find Peace by grounding myself with the 'heaven and earth energy', meditating. It feels like there is a new energy yes for a special, spiritual growth in this relationship...!? Hints? Help? Hope?Thanks for your time, hope to hear from you soon! Omsweetom