56,3.4>23

[SHONNA_D]

The casts about my ex make me feel so confused. Some are auspicious, some are not and I am full of suspicions that something bad is going to happen and any hope for reconciliation will be destroyed.

I asked: Will he get rid of me and close me out of his life?
Hexagram 56 changing lines 3 and 4 to 23
line 3: He has already broke up with me and he left me.
line 4: But his heart is not glad?

23 looks so bad. I can't see any hope here with this But also hexagram 23 says: '

Thus those above can ensure their position only by giving generously to those below. '
I am wondering if hexagram 23 means that somebody is suffering too much.
Whenever I receive hexagram 23 I am so anxious. Any help with that?​

 

[AnitaS]

IMHO you should basically look at the first hexagram 56. He has moved on. So just accept it. And anyway 23 is about collapse.

 

[SHONNA_D]

I agree that the answer looks so bad, but it seems that he hasn't moved on.. Anyway, I am so confused now.

 

[SHONNA_D]

-Update-

Yes, finally his careless behavior was the reason to lose me. Perhaps, his heart is not glad but nothing seems hopeful anymore.