56.3 "year ahead" - useful advice for someone who is the most generous thoughtful person who would never do anything I'm reading in the 56.3 warnings

[duder9000]

Hi there!

For a general "what's my year ahead" reading, my friend received 56.3 > 35

I'm having trouble finding meaningful advice in Line 3, which seems to be a warning all about overstaying your welcome, burning bridges, taking people for granted, etc.

She is, as the title states, so thoughtful and generous and kind. In fact, the sort of person who would "understay their welcome" (for all the metaphors that implies), because she's overthinking and worried about being a burden on someone.

Usually I can find a relevant spin, but I'm having trouble with this one!

Any insights into useful Line 3 advice for someone like this?

Certainly the end point (35) seems to be a nice place, so there's that!

Also - 2 weeks ago her dear cat/best friend/witchy familiar passed away suddenly of old age. Could 56.3 in her case simply be a quite literal meta note on losing her "younger helper"? If so, what would the advice be here? They're already gone, so there's not much she can do! She IS considering getting a new kitty now. Perhaps this is about adopting the kitty / new younger helper?

Thanks for reading

 

[redoleander]

It could definitely be reflecting the younger helper after her loss, I think that makes sense. You might want to see the interpretation at Lise’s site:
Hexagram 56
She frames it as moving fully forward, releasing what is past and choosing the future direction fully. The other side might be about honoring new helpers or situations that come into her life, not burning too quickly, seeing where they can go. Appreciating what she has. It’s not fun to get a “scary” line for a yearly reading but I don’t think this has to be bad at all. Best case scenario is to hold onto the suggestions not in fear but in awareness. It’s a gift to know in advance that she might, say, be quick to cut someone or something off and then, as a result, have a moment of pause beforehand in light of this reading. Or maybe it’s just about knowing she has a clean slate to move forward and can choose a fresh direction, even if there’s some pain associated with the opportunity.

 

[duder9000]

@redoleander wow thank you so much for this beautiful and nuanced insight! It definitely resonates and there's a lot of great stuff for her to work with. And thank you so much for sharing Lise's site as well, I'd never been there before and it's another excellent resource.

Have a great rest of your weekend Redoleander!