57.4 to 44

[starshine]

Hi Just a quick question about this hexagram 57.4

I asked about a guy who I've been in touch with for almost a year. It's long distance, but we were together last summer and he wants to stay with me this summer (he's a teacher so has the holidays free). I've been travelling since start of Jan. He lives in Italy, I live in UK. He's actually been the only person who I've been in regular contact with (apart form family) since I've been away.

For whatever reason I like this guy and my heart feels happy when I think of him, although I feel also maybe it won't realistically work out. Recently there was an opportunity to get together with someone else, who I like and is actually from London, but I felt really sad that if I did it might be the end f the think with the guy from Italy.

Anyway, I just asked a general question: not even a question really just: "me and Ronnie?" I got 57.4...seems all positive but the 44 in the transformed hexagram seems to be a warning. Was just curious as seems such a positive hexagram/moving line. but 44 always seems a warning for me to not get too involved, maybe a warning for me to not be too pushing the relationship...or perhaps in the long term he is not the one? Any advice on the seemingly positive hexagram, with the strong transformed hexagram appreciated.

 

[canislulu]

Someone reported in Wikiwing that they had line 57.4 as a part of a reading. Then they received a chance to choose one of three jobs. I remember that person saying something like one of the jobs being "the best job ever." And so that person found themselves "Coming to Meet" (H44) something that changed her life.

Regrets vanish.
In the field getting three kinds of game.

You have mentioned two relationship possibilities. Perhaps there is or will be a third.
The difference between a relationship and a full time job is that you can have more than one at the same time. You could have a friend, a romance, and...

 

[canislulu]

oops. somehow I posted twice.

 

[starshine]

Thanks yes there are a potential 3 men in the mix I suppose, or there was when I wrote the post! But I suppose the one I asked the questions about is the one I am most interested in...since then looking back I think i felt like I needed to see this man then. But I haven't yet as I was in India and went straight back to my home town in the UK,,,and now I have a full on job so won't see him till July...feel like I might have missed the boat :-( But never mind...I have just written a new posy re situation. But thanks for the input!