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[Osenia]

I thought I will share my cast of this hexagram here even if I am at the very beginning of the insights from Iching. I asked:

What will happen if I go to my friends' leaving party if X is there too?

X meaning my very recent X, with whom I am still in love, the same as him, but he decided that our relationship doesn't work and we need to stay apart and not see each other for some time to heal. Yet our two best friends are having a leaving party, where they here only for one day, so it is today or no day at all. At first I was thinking of not going at all as I am very scared of my emotional reaction, but X said you have to be there for them, we will manage and the friends said that they want me to be there. Until now and maybe still now at subconscious level I really wish to get back together with X and saw this event as an opportunity.

So what I get from the reading is this:

The current situation is conflict - us splitting up. If I go I have to go there for my friends, be there for them and not work towards impressing my ex or getting back together. I am not sure where ancient virtues stand here, but I suppose I always want to keep good relation with people dear to me and whom i care for, so stand by those virtues and be kind towards my ex and my friends and then everything will be ok at the end. But not to wait for praise for this either. It might seem dangerous to go and speak to my ex in this social situation or face this social situation, but if I stand by being kind and friendly I will overcome the danger. Kind of - be submissive to the situation?

I guess after this evening if i decide to go I will have more insights into what it went like. If I dare to go at all!

 

[moss elk]

Hi,

Please include the Hexagram(s) and lines you received so people may offer input.

 

[Osenia]

Oh my dear me, my head is like a hot mess + my laptop hates this website and it just does the thing of it's own. This thread was meant to be put as a comment to Trojina's post about the Hexagram 6.3 and other people's insights, I have no idea how a new post got started.

But either way it was 6.3 changing to 44

 

[Trojina]

I thought a moderator had moved your post to SR because it was a shared reading where you were asking for comments. That is what must have happened. But now I see you post is back over there in Exploring Divination ?


Possibly the moderator who moved the post didn't tell you what they were doing ?

In any case there's now two copies of the same post so either this thread needs deleting or the post on the 6.3 thread needs deleting. Have alerted moderators. I think your post belongs here rather than over there.

 

[moss elk]

I have no idea how a new post got started.

marijan,
When you are looking for help understanding a reading, it goes in Shared Readings. So, I moved it here.

 

[Osenia]

Thank you, I guess I was hoping to share what I have understood from the reading in relation to a different situation, but I agree that it is more of a question. Well then any insights are very welcome to help me decide!

 

[Trojina]

It's to do with doing things for the sake of doing them not for any reward so be aware if you go there won't necessarily be any reward in terms of your own satisfaction re getting back with him etc. Hence you'd only be doing this because you feel it's the right thing to do for the friends.

 

[Osenia]

Thanks Trojina this is exactly what I have thought and understood from the reading, in fact I think it was pretty accurate to the situation. Well let’s hold the emotions together and hope for the best! Thank you once again.