61.1>59

[becalm]

This is a weird situation but in terms of being able to move away I'm not really in a position to because of these bushfires so here it is......
When I was having trouble with Mr Romantic Potential I told one of HIS friends about it and said I'm going to leave the untenable situation and he asked me where I was going I said I don't know yet and he suggested I move in to his place with his son and his gf as they are only using 2 of the 4 bedrooms and it's a big house.
We agreed on the rent and I moved in and as it turns out we get on very well and have a lot in common including working with children with disabilities, psychic and creative abilities.
It's obvious we enjoy each others company and he reminds me of another man who was my close friend but died a couple of years ago from cancer, both men are Pisces, probs not relevant but uncanny to me.
There are moments I wonder what his actual interest is in me. He split up from his wife of a marriage of 36 years at the beginning of this year and says he feels a bit guilty that he doesn't if feel upset about it.
He's quite an attractive man and a few women in town have asked him out (hectic) but he's politely declined - What do I need to know about his interest in me Hexagram 61.1>59

Looks to me like he's trying to work out my Inner Truth and following my 'behaviour' for clues whether I'm still interested in his friend.

 

[rosada]

I see these hexagrams saying your energy and his energy seem to be able to move around without obstruction- you don’t get in each other’s way. You are able to live under the same roof and feel comfortable so the barriers between you dissolve. You get to know each other. This seems to me to be a very nice arrangement for housemates. I think it is significant that these lines do not seem to describe a romantic connection. I think these lines advise not looking for a romance with this fellow but rather to develop this housemate relationship. The line does mention the potential for unease if there is another, and coincidentally you have had this other friend so there may be some uncertainty at first. But that could be a blessing because it gives you to a chance to get acquainted without the courtship game. Then in a month or two you’ll know each other better than many lovers do and perhaps then you’ll know if there’s more potential!

 

[becalm]

I see these hexagrams saying your energy and his energy seem to be able to move around without obstruction- you don’t get in each other’s way. You are able to live under the same roof and feel comfortable so the barriers between you dissolve. You get to know each other. This seems to me to be a very nice arrangement for housemates. I think it is significant that these lines do not seem to describe a romantic connection. I think these lines advise not looking for a romance with this fellow but rather to develop this housemate relationship. The line does mention the potential for unease if there is another, and coincidentally you have had this other friend so there may be some uncertainty at first. But that could be a blessing because it gives you to a chance to get acquainted without the courtship game. Then in a month or two you’ll know each other better than many lovers do and perhaps then you’ll know if there’s more potential!

Thanks Rosada - well that sounds nice, I don't want it to be anything more or less at this point and look forward to getting to know him. When the 'other friend' visits there's so much unease.

Actually funny I just spoke to Mr Pisces and he asked me if I sure it was over with the other one and I said YES and with a big grin on his face he says Perfect!!! Hahahaha we'll see way too soon for me to move on to another potential romance but it's funny as.

 

[becalm]

Well nothing's happened at all except that we obviously enjoy each other a lot but at the same time he did get a bit touchy feely Nothing untoward but I did say to him No I'm not ready to date anyone else yet and he's backed right off.
How to progress our relationship from here
Hxx 4.2.6>2
Remain open to all possibilities Line 2 but also gently lead the way Line 6.

 

[rosada]

I see these lines as saying you are out growing phase one of this relationship and are entering a gestation phase where you must stay calm, quiet, be yourself, and see what manifests about you. See what his energy in your field is manefesting.

 

[becalm]

I see these lines as saying you are out growing phase one of this relationship and are entering a gestation phase where you must stay calm, quiet, be yourself, and see what manifests about you. See what his energy in your field is

Oh that’s good to hear Rosada Thanks!! I feel I need to get some calmness within at the moment . I’m really fortunate I can build gardens here and I’m doing some sewing for his business. I also started Tai Chi today with a little Qi Gong in it..... so calming for my Chi.

 

[becalm]

We had a nice dynamic while it lasted but I've left the house now and no interest in continuing a friendship with him.

 

[rosada]

I realize this is an old thread but I couldn’t resist noting how what becalm had said fit so neatly with the lines. Hexagram 2. as the resultant hexagram gives an example of one possible meaning into of 2. when it appears in that position, ie. nothing more to develope.

4.2 “We had a nice dynamic while it lasted…”
4.6 “..but I’ve left the house now..”
2. “…and no interest in continuing a friendship with him.”

 

[ontheroad]

I've seen him a few times in the supermarket. Once 6 months later and once recently and whilst he's polite he can't get away from me fast enough.....haha wonder what that's about!