63.4 -> 49 will he ever contact me again?

[joslyn]

My ex and I had a very final break up, and we haven't spoken at all in three months. Even exchanging our stuff was done through proxies and by just dropping it off in front of each other's houses. He is the one that ended the relationship, and I honestly don't blame him, I made a lot of mistakes while we were together. My question is whether or not I will ever hear from him again. The fourth line in 63 seems to indicate that I won't, but 63 and 49 both seem like auspicious kuas to me, so I'm confused by this reading. Any insight would be appreciated. Thanks!

Joslyn

 

[joslyn]

Also 63 seems to be about the end of a chapter in my life. Could that possibly be the end of our separation? Have I successfully survived this period of loneliness and he's about to come back to me? Or does it say that the relationship has come to an end and I need to move into the next chapter of my life? My question was whether I'd ever hear from him again - I didn't necessarily ask with any kind of time frame. Although I'd love to know when, if ever, I'll have him in my life again - even as a friend.

 

[dohara]

well, not that I am an expert in I Ching, but I study it for a year, and I would not hope much after this answer.

63 is about endings, and line 4 says something I don't quite understand, but seems like something needs to be really fundamentally changed.

and 49 again is about changes, this time, probably change in your life, and the fact that you are going to live it without him.

however, I am a bit of an expert in breakups I dont know how much time you spent together, but statistics say that if you had at least one year of relationship and he didn't escaped like in horror movies from you, that he will eventually reconnect, at least to sattisfy curiosity and see what are you doing. and I know that people will not like it on this forum, but I learned also that I ching is soemtimes a lying bitch

whish you good luck!