63 to 64 How is my pendulum healing affecting my absent lover?

[AnitaS]

My Italian from 33 years ago says he will visit me next month but I sense he is depressed . When I asked the yi why he didn't respond to my last message, I drew hex 29. Sounds like depression. I sent him colour therapy for his depression but I don't know whether he is using it. Colour therapy is fantastic. I suddenly came across someone who taught me healing through the pendulum so I have been attempting to heal my lover from 33 years ago. I asked the yi how it is affecting him and drew 63 with all lines moving to 64. Healing completed and new beginnings? Thank you for your suggestions.

 

[Trojina]

I drew hex 29. Sounds like depression.

No, be careful, that's a bit of a jump on your behalf. I'd say the 29uc is for you. This guy is not following through on his promises and I say that not only from this thread but from the previous ones.

Being depressed is not really a reason not to send a message however short back so you are trying to make excuses for him. You're guessing he's depressed or maybe he told he was, but either way if he can't tell you himself how the pendulum affects him then is this really something to continue with?

 

[AnitaS]

No, be careful, that's a bit of a jump on your behalf. I'd say the 29uc is for you. This guy is not following through on his promises and I say that not only from this thread but from the previous ones.

Being depressed is not really a reason not to send a message however short back so you are trying to make excuses for him. You're guessing he's depressed or maybe he told he was, but either way if he can't tell you himself how the pendulum affects him then is this really something to continue with?

But I'm not at all depressed Trojina. I'm having fun. Let's see. Will let you know if he turns up . What I really want to know us whether my pendulum healing works.

 

[Trojina]

You've misunderstood me, I haven't said you were depressed. You said he was depressed so I said about him

Being depressed is not really a reason not to send a message

I meant he could possibly manage a text saying 'I'm too depressed to answer you properly right now' rather than not reply. Not replying to messages is a red flag and one you ignore at your peril(29)

You can't really just see 29 as depression, you need to think about that some more. I think you are in peril because you may be pinning hopes on this man who doesn't seem interested any more. He got amorous on facebook but hasn't followed through. You haven't seen him for 30 years, you haven't met with him for 30 years some caution is required on your part but perhaps you are drowning(29), in the dark, not seeing what's really happening. Maybe he enjoyed the whole drama of connecting again but since then seems to be ignoring you.

And think about it, you are asking us how the pendulum affects him but he could tell you himself but doesn't choose to. What does that tell you?

 

[AnitaS]

You've misunderstood me, I haven't said you were depressed. You said he was depressed so I said about him



I meant he could possibly manage a text saying 'I'm too depressed to answer you properly right now' rather than not reply. Not replying to messages is a red flag and one you ignore at your peril(29)

You can't really just see 29 as depression, you need to think about that some more. I think you are in peril because you may be pinning hopes on this man who doesn't seem interested any more. He got amorous on facebook but hasn't followed through. You haven't seen him for 30 years, you haven't met with him for 30 years some caution is required on your part but perhaps you are drowning(29), in the dark, not seeing what's really happening. Maybe he enjoyed the whole drama of connecting again but since then seems to be ignoring you.

And think about it, you are asking us how the pendulum affects him but he could tell you himself but doesn't choose to. What does that tell you?

Trojina I see your concern. But this is no big deal for me. He got in touch. I didn't. And he called me and I called him too. It doesn't really matter if he doesn't turn up. Just happy that he still adores me. Depression affects people in ways most of us don't understand. I saw it in my German. You reject pleasure and joy. You feel hopeless . So makes sense that he does not respond at times. He is also suffering from financial hassles and it costs a lot to travel internationally.

 

[AnitaS]

Trojina I see your concern. But this is no big deal for me. He got in touch. I didn't. And he called me and I called him too. It doesn't really matter if he doesn't turn up. Just happy that he still adores me. Depression affects people in ways most of us don't understand. I saw it in my German. You reject pleasure and joy. You feel hopeless . So makes sense that he does not respond at times. He is also suffering from financial hassles and it costs a lot to travel internationally.

Also I will heal him whether he returns or not . This is someone I had a lovely relationship with. I read a thread on here regarding 29 where someone highly regarded here says 29 denotes bipolar issues.

 

[Trojina]

29 may come up in a question about bipolar issues (so could any other hexagram) but it really makes no sense at all to cast 29 and conclude a person has bipolar. It would be absurd to diagnose someone with bipolar on the strength of casting 29 alone.


You say you don't care but the number of questions about this guy show you do. In any case I hope you start to care less if he doesn't respond to messages.

 

[AnitaS]

29 may come up in a question about bipolar issues (so could any other hexagram) but it really makes no sense at all to cast 29 and conclude a person has bipolar. It would be absurd to diagnose someone with bipolar on the strength of casting 29 alone.


You say you don't care but the number of questions about this guy show you do. In any case I hope you start to care less if he doesn't respond to messages.

Of course I care . But I won't come apart if he doesn't turn up. I'm not the type to moon around. Just have good memories . My humanity tells me to be compassionate and it sure will be exciting to meet him again. Or it may not be. Will wait and see. I'm pretty sure he us depressed though because my temple oracle says so too as well as the astrologer who has checked his chart.

 

[redoleander]

Do you ask for permission to have his chart consulted and to do these healings? I’m wondering if the 29 UC could be reflecting this is more about you; I know I have received it when my own heart or mind is not steady and I need just be with something uncomfortable. Karcher: “dangerous place, pit, snare, trap, venture and fall”. Working on someone without consent is dicey territory even if we think we have their best interests at heart. Since you have to guess so much about his state and improvement, it sounds like there isn’t that much direct dialogue about it. 29 UC can be almost stuck in a loop, like doing the same thing and expecting a different result. Sometimes we have to just focus on our own center even if it’s hard.

 

[rosada]

How your pendulum healing efforts are effecting your friend? 63 - 64.
Whether or not this is "true" I would interpret these lines to be saying you should assume your pendulum technique is assisting him in bringing unfinished business to a conclusion and thus clearing the field for new patterns to imerge.
I wonder if he was reaching out to you after all this time not because the two of you are heading towards a future together, but because on some unconscious level his soul wants to complete whatever unfinished business (misunderstandings?) there are between you - and then there is no plan yet in place for the future.
I think you can interpret 29 to mean not that your friend is depressed but he's uncertain where he wants to go with this - how deep he wants to get in.
I think you should play it that your friend reached out to you because he knew there was unfinished business between you - maybe he just didn't say good bye properly - and now that he's heard your voice he's not real clear about whether your friendship should grow - or go. Anyway, I encourage you to continue to wish him good vibrations but be in a state of mind that says, Okay, he's healed, adios!

 

[AnitaS]

Do you ask for permission to have his chart consulted and to do these healings? I’m wondering if the 29 UC could be reflecting this is more about you; I know I have received it when my own heart or mind is not steady and I need just be with something uncomfortable. Karcher: “dangerous place, pit, snare, trap, venture and fall”. Working on someone without consent is dicey territory even if we think we have their best interests at heart. Since you have to guess so much about his state and improvement, it sounds like there isn’t that much direct dialogue about it. 29 UC can be almost stuck in a loop, like doing the same thing and expecting a different result. Sometimes we have to just focus on our own center even if it’s hard.

Thanks Rosada. Enough communication between us to make it clear to me that he welcomes my healing and prayers. I just got 40 unchanging for my pendulum healing. So I know it is powerful. I would mot send any healing to anyone without their consent anyway.

 

[AnitaS]

Thanks Rosada. Enough communication between us to make it clear to me that he welcomes my healing and prayers. I just got 40 unchanging for my pendulum healing. So I know it is powerful. I would mot send any healing to anyone without their consent anyway.

Rosada in fact some time ago I sent him his chart because it is worrying and he should pay attention to it. He is going through a very difficult astrogical cycle. Most women would not have anything to do with someone going through such a time. But not me.