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[deusa]

Well, my romantic relationships are non-existant and it would be fun to have some of it in my life. The courting, the passion, the fun...
So I asked the Yi this. To have some fun and romance and passion, give me an advice about relationships with men, please Yi.

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(By the way, i got a 12 unchanged when asking what I should do about my ex, the father of my children. Pretty clear, isn't it?)

Now, the 63... Is it warning me to not go back? Tonight we are going to have a diner as a family, it is good for the kids and we want to keep a good relationship...

So far, when I got 63's they were indicating something good. Like: you accomplished something. Just don't sit on it, keep going.

Any help?

 

[gene]

deusa

Hexagram sixty three in conjunction with hexagram sixty four are the hexagrams of involution and evolution. This is universal law and in terms of the reality of existence it cannot be altered, but on our daily life we can alter it somewhat, or at least slow down the effects. Hexagram sixty three has all the lines in their perfect place, hence, in a sense, it is the perfect hexagram. The problem is that everything changes. So if we want to keep things perfect we have to pay attention to details, and keep shoring up the props upon which we stand. Therefore, in terms of the question asked, the answer seems to be indicating that you cannot allow things to just slide. You must look for the means to keep things running smoothly and be ready always to fix the little things that go wrong.

One has to be wary, like the little fox, crossing the stream on the ice, always listening for the sound of the crackling of the ice, so that it can be prepared for difficulty. This too, I think, would be good advice what you are in a relationship, to be always looking for the things that will inevitably go wrong, not with a sense of foreboding, but simply to be ready to remedy little situations so that they do not get out of hand, and too big to fix.

Hope this makes some sense.

Gene

 

[deusa]

Gene, i love to read your interpretations... i thought 63 could be read too as: be wary not to repeat the me mistakes...