64.3.4 and 31 Relationship potential?

[Retro158]

I've been interested in someone for a while. We've gone out several times and discovered we share a lot of interests, but I've not yet felt an opening to romance. Recently, I brought this up and she acknowledged we're kind of in the middle and she has some uncertainty. She suggested we let it simmer a bit. We've gotten together a couple of times since then, but nothing has really shifted and I find myself getting a bit impatient and concerned that maybe this isn't going anywhere, so....

I asked the following:

How can I best view things with her at this time? 64.3.4 > 18

What is the potential for relationship here? 31 uc

My impression of the first response is that a crossing is in process, nearly complete, but there is some work to be done on obstacles.

The second cast seems to suggest good potential for a closer relationship.

Does this seem accurate? Do you have other perspectives?

Thank you!

 

[Tim K]

I concur with your thoughts.

64.3 → 50 (Containing), Legge:
Shows its subject, with (the state of things) not yet remedied, advancing on; which will lead to evil.
But there will be advantage in (trying to) cross the great stream.

64.4 → 4 (Immaturity), Richmond:
Continuance in the way brings good fortune.
Subduing the land of Kuei (the land of the devils)
took three years and great rewards were gained.

Give her some more time. Continue to spend time together, 31 does sound awesome for relationship.